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Summary of the article:

Allaaltin: Katya tried to bring together diverse material. It made a patchwork quilt. Simple, but tasteful. It will be useful for many. The one who does nothing makes no mistakes.

Houses, planets, signs have several levels of elaboration and several layers of information. To describe each of them would lose the theme. The average temperature in the hospital is given.

Canela: Good raw material, like modeling clay, is the basis for a quality product.

To begin with, it is necessary to note:

1. Any compatibility analysis begins with an analysis of natal charts separately, mainly on the topic of relationships, identifying strong channels (each has its own method) and mutual expectations (http://astro-traktovka.livejournal.com/5906.html).

2. Tense aspects in synastry are not always correctly called defeat, especially between gender planets (Venus, Mars, Sun, Moon), benefactors and Pluto; such a connection, on the contrary, can create long-term attraction or short-term passion.

Light: The squares represent all the “Santa Barbara” in our lives (author’s note: they are the most difficult to work through), and the oppositions are “office romances” with mismatches - strong, jealous, zealous and painful (author’s note: opposition in general may not attract, but repel). But any gender aspects are the decoration of synastry, aspects of attraction are the essence: http://iguana-coach.livejournal.com/242365.html. : The more aspects between personal planets, the stronger the ties between people; I don’t think that good aspects of Jupiter can correct a hopeless synastry.

Сanela: But there are natal bearers for whom these aspectations are noticeably important, and there are those who, even without them, on other indicators, such as touching an angle or the inclusion of one Neptune, will sigh and carry in their arms; We have also noticed those whose focus of attention is shifted to themselves/work/benefit, or “stingy emotional-heart fund”, they generally activate their sexual Mars, Venus, etc. they rub themselves, hang out and run into the bushes from sin (author’s note: this is why we begin to consider synastry by studying natals separately and highlighting strong channels).

3. The orb between personal planets is taken over the entire sign, that is, we rather consider the compatibility of the signs of celestial bodies, elements, in other cases no more than 5-6 degrees and 8-10 for luminaries. But it's different in different schools. The most accurate aspects will dominate and be played out most vividly. Aspects through a sign in synastry should not be taken into account, even if they are practically accurate (for example, his Venus is in 30 degrees of Aries, and his Saturn is in 1 degree of Capricorn, the program will show a trine, but there can be no trine between earth and fire), because in Synastry is important for the interaction of elements. You may feel something, but it is advisable to push such aspects into the background.

4. When the partner’s planet makes a tense aspect to your planet in its own sign (for example, Saturn in Libra (m) square Mars in Capricorn (f)), such interaction is considered as easier and more natural according to the function of the planets, (i.e. the owner Mars in Capricorn is “loved” and understood by Saturn, so he will succumb to his control and help him limit himself according to the functions of his Mars). And so it is useful to consider any reception in the case of an aspect. But if this is, for example, a square of Mars in Aries and Capricorn, they can of course become good collaborators, or passion will flare up between them, but also according to their natural functions, they will want to conflict in each other’s presence, it will simply be perceived as integral, a natural part of a relationship.

5. It is much easier for people with intense aspects in natal to get along with people who also have similar connections (for example, if you have connections between the Sun and Uranus, then a good union will work out with a person who also has a connection between Uranus and the luminary, thus both will not claim each other’s personal space, which they so need). This is especially true for aspects of gender planets (a man with the opposition Moon Venus will be happy with someone who has the same opposition or square). But there is another opinion:

vici2004: men with intense aspects of similarity very quickly began to irritate, heaviness was felt and a certain similarity was felt, a feeling of the same psychological problem.

Daragan wrote that sometimes it is better for your partner to have a tense aspect, and for you to have the same, but harmonious, aspect, although opinions differ.

In any case, all aspects of similarity must be considered. This is why we often attract people. For example, I have Mars in conjunction with Neptune and all men had a tense aspect between these planets.

6. It is equally important to pay attention to what natal configurations the partner completes with his planets; this can significantly improve or worsen compatibility.

Canela: If you get large squares, the partners will either be scattered from tension, or you will end up with a closed system of energy distillation.

If your planet is completing an already existing configuration of the same planets in natal, because you are approximately the same age (for example, the native has a Moon-Saturn square, and your Saturn is conjunct with his, that is, it also stands square to his moon), you should not hope that you will not feel it, since you are already accustomed to these vibrations; on the contrary, you will feel it doubly, and you will be able to clearly identify its functions in your relationship, as if you look at yourself from the outside, you will better feel and understand this aspect in your own map.

Gia: In the natal chart there is the Sun square Neptune, because of which I don’t like my peers, because they also square my Sun with Neptune. And they are trying to make a fool of themselves - almost all of my boyfriends the same age tried to wildly lie to me, embellish everything and create fog. This drove me crazy.

Again, it is more useful to look at such aspects by house, rather than by function.

7. Most often, it is the distant planet that performs the “action” on the near one, that is, if, for example, the Moon (f) is in opposition to Mars (m), then it is the Mars person who will hurt and make the Moon person “cry,” or if Saturn (m ) in conjunction with the Moon (g), then the Saturn person will decide how long this relationship will last, since he “holds” the Moon, he must let it go.

8. It is more correct to consider the aspects between the higher planets according to their belonging to houses, as well as the aspect of the personal to the higher, when we want to consider not the action of the higher over the personal function from point 6, but vice versa (for example, Mars in a square with the partner’s Pluto as its ruler 4 - loved ones of a Pluto person will irritate a Mars person). Other aspects are also important to look at in this context, but they can also be interpreted by function. In practice, it is noticeable that the situation in the house works first, and then the management.

9. Canela: Until now, no one has been encountered who would not have received well aspects to different planets of the same character in the appropriate aspect for them. That is:

For Venus, the Moon is interesting and friendly, the aspects are clearly manifested primarily by the trine (smoothness, acceptance of Yin planets by gender) and the conjunction - close, personal, very physically tangible interaction, and the conjunction combines tension and harmony - “not boring” for both.

For Mars, Pluto is equivalent, understandable, but also influential, the aspects are good sextile - pleasant drive and square - recharge, activation, the tension both planets need to work. Energy dependence on each other (now I’m not talking about happiness, but simply dependence) - approx. Light. By the way, according to statistics for strong long-term pairs, Mars square/Pluto conjunction is one of the most popular aspects.

Finally, Sun to Moon is an eternal yin-yang, external/internal classic. Works on the spectrum of major aspects, with large orbs.

And according to the yang nature of the Sun-Mars, they complement each other in a convenient form: the potential/ideas of the first + the implementation of the second = tandem.

10. Mine is a rare occurrence, since the orbs in synastry are decent, but if there is one, then the unaspected planet will be felt more painfully by the one to whom it belongs. He will try to demonstrate it, to prove that he fully possesses these functions, but his own efforts will seem in vain - like peas hitting a wall. The difference with aspected planets is that you do not try to show them off to your partner in any unusual way, and so you feel that he has noticed them. When the feral planets seem to be unsure of themselves and therefore try to manifest themselves more brightly, as if they are waving to be noticed: “Hey, we are here!!!”. So if your Mercury finds itself in such a feral situation, you will feel as if your partner is not listening to you, although this may not be the case at all. You will begin to speak louder/more, demand not to interrupt, begin to ask again and again why he is not attentive to your words... The partner who missed your planet would seem to be not interested in its functions, no matter how hard you try. In fact, it’s not that he doesn’t notice it, he simply follows his own established stereotype, without being able to look at the real situation. Roughly speaking, if he decides that you are an idiot, then no matter how hard you try to prove the opposite, this person is unlikely to change his mind. So, for example, if this is the sun of your partner, then you probably won’t fully understand the person’s goals, aspirations and life position, and for some reason you won’t be able to find a way to find out for yourself.

11. In Shestopalov’s old school, it was believed that the presence of three conflicting aspects (between Mars, Jupiter, Saturn and Pluto) would certainly lead to separation or at least not allow an official marriage to be concluded (orb 5 degrees), in practice this is not always confirmed, but very often (read more: http://astro-future.narod.ru/sinast/index.html). The same aspect of Saturn square Mars is very often found in long-term alliances.

12. Synastry helps to find out the psychological compatibility between people and what pitfalls they will stumble over, but it is believed that love cannot be seen in it, as well as the level of human development in the natal chart.

Light: We don’t fall in love based on the planets, something higher - it’s then, when we wake up, we begin to understand what kind of train we’re on, what landscapes are outside the window and where we’re going, and in general what the conditions are around. Good synastry allows you to make even a not very bright feeling pleasant, vital, joyful and stable, which will never get boring. And vice versa, the bad thing is to turn a great and great feeling into an endless one. heartache and hell.

It is impossible to see in it the prospect of marriage or the birth of a child; such events are determined using prognostication. But there is so-called event compatibility, which clearly shows whether your couple has the potential to limp to the registry office. If circumstances do not flow favorably, you will have to swim against the tide and initiate events yourself, which is simply not for everyone. When we say the word “circumstances,” we automatically switch to houses. So in the map we will look for nothing more than connections between the elements of the 7th and 10th houses of partners, and the more accurate they are, the stronger fate will push them together:

a. Major aspect to cusps 10 or 7 from the partner planet of element 10 or 7.

b. Major aspect between the elements of the 7th houses of partners.

c. Major aspect between elements of 1st and 7th houses

d. Personal planets in 7 and 10, especially in conjunction with the elements of this house (cusp, planets in it)

If you have at least one connection from the above, this is already good, circumstances will help you to be together. But to be 100% sure, rectification is necessary to analyze event compatibility.

Rey: In general, all angles are important. I noticed that aspects between my planets and my partner’s planets do not yet guarantee a certain connection. For example, I have several friends, their Mars is conjunct to my Venus and their Venus is conjunct to my Mars. But there is no love between us. Friendship - yes, flirting and making advances - is possible.... but there is no sensual connection. But when I meet a person and his planets roll into my 7,4,10 houses, then I react like a mouse to a boa constrictor.

Light: If we are just talking about starting a relationship and having a good time, then the rulers of the 5 houses should be aspected.

13. Light: For additional information it is necessary to study the middle one: aspects Mars-Venus, Mars-Moon, Sun-Moon.

And the composite (midpoint map) is the flow of energies within the couple, external circumstances and reasons:

http://forum..php?m=sr&it=26528

Olis: The average between the progressive ones is simply a storehouse of information

Mashina: And of course, it is important whether there is a period in a person’s life now when he can fall in love. Otherwise the whole synastry will pass by.

The basic principle for interpreting aspects:

Sun- this is our individuality and life direction/position.

Light: A man’s Sun should be aspected as much as possible for the man’s desire to maintain the marriage for as long as possible. Otherwise, it is difficult for a woman to see his personality, and for a man to show him.

Tense aspects partner, they somehow prevent him from expressing himself openly/naturally,

Harmonious Aspects On the contrary, they help. If the luminaries are in a harmonious aspect, then people already have something in common.

Light: Aspects of the Sun with Venus are very good, because Venus, as a small happiness (and yet it is closer to the body than Jupiter) simply adores the Sun.

Moon- it is necessary to consider the compatibility of the Moons, because this is a question of everyday life and how comfortable you are together (location in opposition/quadrature signs or lack of contemplation already creates problems, especially when living together, although this is unlikely to cause separation without other confirmation). The principle of the Moon is to absorb like a sponge, therefore, making any aspect with any planet, it grasps its principle and even slightly exaggerates (into exaltation). For example, when the Moon squares with Venus, the first sees the second almost as a goddess (one can say, literally, Venus is the goddess of love), that is, she is stunned by her beauty (principle). But because of the square, she doesn’t know how to approach, she’s nervous, jealous, offended by the lack of initiative... and the Moon takes any planet so close to her heart. So if you still feel the urge to look for love in synastry, despite point 10, I’ll give you a hint - love in many schools goes along the Moon, it is the person of the Moon who loves and becomes attached to the partner’s planets by aspect.

Light: For good compatibility, the woman’s Moon should not be strongly afflicted when Venus may be afflicted.

Tense aspects Luna is hurt and begins to react emotionally. If the Moon is touched, for example, by Saturn, then the Moon person may lack warmth and tenderness, Saturn will seem too cold to him, and at the moment of a quarrel, the Moon will begin to sort things out or cry (see how this manifests itself in the native according to natal), and Saturn will just stop talking, he seems more ruthless towards the Moon man. With Mars, the tense aspect is very bad, because the Moon person feels constant tension in the presence of Mars, as if she is being hunted and can begin to defend herself in advance, hence the constant quarrels, almost empty space. Although Mars really gives the Moon a lot of trouble, as if it cuts to the quick, be it harsh statements, careless actions, or even assault. Moon in Scorpio may like this, but others will suffer and burst into tears. For example, my good friend’s Mars squared my Moon and any touch, even a friendly pat on the shoulder, left bruises on my skin. Sometimes, in tense aspects, the principle of the Moon to “absorb” turns into a purely consumer one, especially after the desire to receive the principle of the aspected planet meets obstacles corresponding to the tense aspect - the soul has been wounded, which means we will use it stupidly.

Harmonious Aspects The moon is beckoned spiritually, this is something that is almost close to her. They can also be considered as a subconscious understanding of the functions of the planet by the Moon and a good attitude towards them on a sensory level (smells, touches, sounds, tenderness). That is, if this is a trine Moon Mercury - the Moon person will understand well why Mercury said so, it will be close to him, and maybe he will like the voice of the Mercury person (a friend of mine had the Moon conjunct with a partner afflicted by Mercury in the 1st house - she really liked the way he burrs). The Moon is also a concern and if it, for example, falls into the 4th house of a partner, then the Moon person will actively take care of the comfort in his loved one’s home, and if in the 1st - about his appearance and so on.

Mercury- it is important to consider this planet as a quality of mutual understanding between partners. For love relationship Mercury does not have to have a harmonious aspect, you can argue if everything else is in order, but in a friendly circle, most likely you will often find that all Mercury is located in the same element.

Harmonious aspect (including the conjunction) of Mercury causes an understanding of the functions of the planet on an analytical level, although they may not be spiritually close to him (“Yes, yes, I understand your position, I will not argue,” will say Mercury, which harmoniously aspects Jupiter. “Although for me it is completely different,” since Jupiters are in opposition signs). So if this is an aspect with a luminary, then good mutual understanding in a couple is guaranteed. A disharmonious aspect can deprive a Mercury person of interest in communicating with a person of the luminary (they may listen to him inattentively), but there are other ways of interaction if you are a guy and a girl;)

Tense aspects Mercury arouses interest in the functions of the planet it aspects, as a result of misunderstanding, and this depends on the sign of Mercury, because otherwise, on the contrary, this will become the reason for condemning the functions of the partner planet in verbal form, or at the level of analysis, thinking, that is, we look at how much Mercury curious. But we must not forget about point 6: so, with Mercury squared with Mars, it is the Mars person who will argue with the Mercury person, in turn, the Mercury person may stop being tactful and polite in dealing with Mars, he will want to defend himself with words, hence involuntary swearing in their dialogue, Mercury’s causticism, etc. If a guy and a girl communicate with this aspect, then the Mars person will provoke Mercury on all sorts of sexual topics, he will like to talk to him about such things, but at the same time, the communication style or responses of Mercury may irritate the Mars person. If instead of Mars there is Pluto, it will be interesting to raise all sorts of esoteric topics in the dialogue, and also the Pluto person will clearly pick on Mercury, mock, troll.

Light: There is nothing good about a Mercury square, especially if they are placed in fixed signs, although they can spark initial interest.

Here it is correct to use the word like/dislike, this is what Venus will tell us about (but do not forget about points 2, 6 and 7). Its principle is to evaluate and, if you like, appropriate.

Tense aspects Venus pushes away from the function of the aspected planet and gives outright hostility. For example, a friend of mine had her Venus in synastry in opposition to Saturn in her partner’s 4th house - she simply couldn’t stand his mother.

But tense aspects of Venus with gender planets and Pluto, on the contrary, give sexual attraction and passion (which, however, has an expiration date and if there are no other significant aspects, the relationship will not last long), and if it is a square Venus (f) Mars (m), in this combination the woman, as expected, feels like a woman, and a man is a man. When these planets change roles, that is, Mars is for the lady, and Venus is for the man, then in relationships the initiative begins to come more strongly from the woman, she feels dominant, playing the role of Mars, especially in sexual terms (depending on the position of Mars in the natal we we will understand whether she likes it or not, and according to point 4 - whether the martyr likes it). Tense aspects of Venus with Pluto are also considered good for intimate compatibility. The opposition of the Sun with Venus speaks of a strong attraction in the sense of external attractiveness.

Harmonious Aspects Venus attracts, this is what Venus is satisfied with in a partner, for which the Venus person appreciates him. For example, Venus in trine to Neptune exercise 10 in a partner’s chart means that we like what a person strives for, we like his work, we like his status in society, etc. But the trine of Venus with Saturn can be considered a harmonious aspect only if the former is in the abode/exaltation of Saturn. If not, then the relationship will be like the relationship between a rabbit and a boa constrictor - the Saturn person will seem too cold for the Venus person.

Mars is a provocateur and/or stimulator in synastry. If it connects with exercise 1, then it provokes actions according to the symbolism of its sign: “Go in for sports, go in for sports!” - my dad keeps telling me with Mars in Aries even when I’m already doing it)).

Light: The lack of involvement of Mars (man or woman) in the synastry can lead to the direction of the energy of Mars outside the synastry - going to the left (author's note: if there are indications in the natal chart of the ability to cheat, I will write an article about this soon)

There is also an interesting observation from Lewka - very often we find men with Mars, like our dads, a similar degree, sign, sometimes aspectation.

In tense aspects Mars provokes not only activity according to the functions of the aspected planet, but also aggression, passion, and sex; it does this quite straightforwardly. If there is an opposition or square of Mars with the partner’s luminaries/ascendant, then despite a harmonious relationship, the partner can be seriously annoying.

In harmonious aspects Mars stimulates activity, helps a partner, and with real deeds, physical actions. Therefore, it is good to have a trine or conjunction of Mars with employees.

For boys to be friends, you need the placement of Mars in friendly signs, as well as the absence of tension between Mars and Pluto.

For girls' friendship - Venus. And also the absence of tension between Venus and the Moon.

Katia-crimea: One practicing astrologer I know said that in synastry it is very easy to see who will “run after” whom more. According to him, it is enough to look at whose Mars is facing the sun.

Our views, morals, attitudes, worldview and ability to give gifts to a partner. In synastry it is considered a conflict planet with tense aspects. No matter how strong the passion is, Jupiter square (not opposition!) Jupiter will kill love in any case (approx. Hamburgerin)

If they are harmonious, this is a seal of happiness.

In tense aspects Jupiter is indignant and tries to pester with his advice, gives lectures and morals.

Despite this, when Jupiter is in opposition/conjunction with the luminary/ascendant of passion, the Jupiter person often seeks to benefit his loved one, be it material support or assistance with advice. I also observed a square of Jupiter to Venus and Jupiter was constantly reluctant to give her his things to wear, but he gave them away.

Mashina: My husband’s Jupiter is in exact opposition to my Venus - he gives with desire. But the fact that I didn’t fit into his worldview as a woman is another matter. That is, the facets of the aspect are important. Maybe that’s why he gives a lot because he still wants, according to his Libra Venus, to finally receive the ideal! Go, grit, get a haircut, go to the pool, go buy a dress... That is, he gives it not because I’m so lovely, but to charm me to his taste. He gives, as it were, because it is necessary. You can’t say it’s forced, but it’s not like a trine/sextile either.

In harmonious aspects Jupiter admires and takes pride in the functions of the planet it aspects. If this is a synastry of friends, it will be great if their Mercurys are mutually well aspected by Jupiters, then, with other confirmations, they will always have something to chat about. The harmonious aspects of Jupiter with the luminaries are called seals of happiness, because the person of the luminary feels happy next to Jupiter.

Light: Without aspects of Jupiter, marriage is possible, but without aspects of Saturn it is unlikely.

Saturn- this is the glue of any synastry; without its aspects to the luminaries/ascendant, no relationship will work out for a long time. And it is the Saturn man who decides how long they last.

Scat: Saturn tends to “push” more for the purpose of control, which is why it seems that the duration depends on Saturn because outwardly it looks like independence. However, I observed the following thing: Saturn Man is deliberately sent, and for some reason he begins to cave in on his own, because... feels extremely insecure, pathetic and doomed. Arrogance disappears somewhere and bleats like lambs...

So Saturn is a desire for control, losing control, Saturn will try with all its might to return it, the familiar past. But there is another opinion:

Light: Pluto is for control, Saturn is about something else. Saturn intends to correct what is wrong: “I will lay down my life, but I will make a man out of you.”

In tense aspects (including the conjunction) he controls and limits the functions of the aspected planet, doses them or puts them in a framework (whether the planet will meet him depends on how it relates to Saturn according to reception, I repeat that this applies to any aspect!). Intense Aspects of Saturn to the luminaries are called the seals of misfortune, but they are the ones that cement relationships for a long time (because Saturn is patience, without it, you know, there is nowhere in a serious relationship). Of course, it’s better if Saturn connects with the moon/sun, sits on the partner’s ascendant, or makes a more intimate trine with the luminary, but even with its intense aspects, people coexist well, especially if see point 3: people’s synastry was posted on another forum , married for 35 years, there is a mutual square of Saturn to the suns in Capricorn and Aquarius, in this case, Saturn made a square to the planet that “loves” him and is ready to accept him, so it worked unambiguously, like glue, and not a seal of misfortune.

Light: Excerpt: Irinkin Dmitry Borisovich Matia

“I think what keeps each other close to each other is the “defeat of the Moons by Saturn.” Stefan Arroyo mentions in his works that Saturn in synastry is a stabilizing factor.

From my own experience, I am convinced that the mutual aspects of Saturn (Saturn - Sun, Saturn - Venus cause in people a feeling of a strong mutual connection and force them to undergo joint tests. Moreover, this connection cannot be rationally explained. Here it is and that’s it. Usually the Saturn person acts in relation to the partner as a disciplinary factor. However, this disciplinary factor is not perceived as something strongly dominant or weighing on him.

Or let's say so. A person sees (or vaguely senses) certain negative qualities in himself, but due to his current structure he is not able to cope with them. And when a Saturn man appears in his life, he positively perceives his disciplinary role. It’s as if he finally found something that will discipline him... Of course, more often these will be unconscious sensations or desires.

Such Saturnian aspects can be interpreted as a strong karmic connection that is formed over many incarnations.

Two more words about the aspects of Saturn and Venus. This can manifest itself in the so-called addictive love (see the books of our wonderful psychologist M.E. Litvak). This is a craving that can be curbed, but cannot be destroyed. That is, you can restrain it at the level of behavior control, but you cannot restrain it at the level of desire. It (desire) is present despite all our tricks and persuasion."

Aspect of Saturn (f) and Venus (m) - a woman is cooler towards a man when he wants love. Male Venus is like a rabbit in front of a boa constrictor, in front of female Saturn, especially in a negative aspect (and don’t forget about point 4). But it also happens the other way around:

Lewka: There is a familiar couple: his Saturn is on her Venus. He’s just “addicted” to her, and she... grumbles and complains that he’s “pressuring and oppressing” her.

There is nothing criminal in the square between Saturns.

In harmonious aspects he tolerates the functions of the aspected planet, even if he doesn’t like something, he won’t even mention it, he’ll keep it to himself.

Uranus- it is not easy to interpret the higher planets in synastry, because not everyone actively manifests themselves in their natal chart, and even in compatibility they begin to work in closer relationships. Uranus is a thirst for liberation and renewal, therefore:

Tense aspects Uranus dreams of quickly getting rid of the functions of the partner’s planet, cannot spend time with him for a long time, gets bored. I knew a synastry in which the girl’s Moon was in opposition to the guy’s Uranus and Saturn. He loved her very much from a distance, they dated for many years, but as soon as she arrived - that’s it, the guy dreamed of getting rid of her as quickly as possible, since she was whining all the time and sorting things out with him, he sent him home, and then brought him back again and they continued communication via Skype. (useful to read: http://forum..php?m=sr&it=29749)

Mashina: When MCH put Venus in an exact square to Uranus for me, I was overcome by some kind of rage at close contact. As soon as the excessive fussing and fussing began, the irritation was physically felt. I couldn't be with him for a long time. Five hours is the limit, and then I want to escape.

Harmonious Aspects Uranus, as well as tense ones, can liberate the partner’s planet, give it a touch of paradox, that is, roughly speaking, if a person is straight, in the company of Uranus he may unexpectedly begin to behave bisexually. For example, when my Uranus made a trine to a friend’s Mercury, he could play the role of a clown in front of me and talk ridiculous nonsense, although in his life he never behaved like that with anyone, except for my peers, whose Uranus also touched his Mercury.

Neptune- the planet of anesthesia, euphoria and castles in the air. If this is a creative union, then the Neptune person will be inspired by the functions of the partner’s aspected planets. It is not difficult to guess that it is:

Tense aspects will mislead the partner regarding the functions of his aspected planet, and deceive expectations.

If this Sun-Neptune - the one whose Sun - will wear rose-colored glasses in relations with Neptune, and Neptune will mislead the Sun, by what things see in which house in the natal the sun is and what it rules.

Canela: And in any aspects with Neptune there is often deception, a desire to be deceived.

Moreover, it is precisely the planet that Neptune aspects, especially if it is in the signs of Neptune or has the same natal aspect(as happens with peers in synastry - see point 6), then maybe Neptune was not going to deceive anyone at all, to the question: “How do you like me in this dress?”, He said: “It’s okay, it’s normal,” and the planet already I decided in my head that he liked this dress so much that he was ready to walk down the aisle with her in it (this is about the intense Venus-Neptune aspect).

If this is a square Neptune (m) Moon (w) - the Neptune man can make it clear to the Moon how much he wants her to become the mother of his children, although in fact he is not at all ready for this. And the Moon person will strongly idealize/idolize Neptune, seeing only the best in him, not noticing his shortcomings. If friends have this aspect, then the Neptune person will “solder” the Moon, try to drag him into some sects, share his beliefs, etc.

Canela: Also, the owner of the Moon can confuse his emotions towards the owner of Neptune (and if instead of the Moon there is the Sun, he will confuse his thoughts). The Moon absorbs Neptune's culture as if it were her own. But unfortunately, the truth of life is that there is often deception, a desire to be deceived.

Venus in opposition to Neptune - a contrast between the irrational, vague ideals of one and the specific tastes of the other, a blurred/biased perception of appearance and femininity in a couple, a lot of things according to individual natal charts. There may even be a difference in approach to money, since Neptune is like non-cash and non-specific investments, and Venus is comfortable materialism. The opposite of a value system. But for romantic dreams/fantasies at a distance, Venus opposition Neptune will provide food.

Jiya: But we must also remember about the level of development - the more developed a person is and the more he uses his Neptune for its intended purpose, and not at a lower level, the greater the chance that there will be no lies. And if the Martyr has only one meander, and even then a straight one, how else can the poor man use his Neptune? So he uses it as best he can. And if the Martyr uses his Neptune, for example, in finance, since his intellect allows it, then he does not need to lie, why?

Harmonious Aspects will induce euphoria, provided that Neptune in the chart is a working planet, it can give a feeling of “wrapped up”, detachment, relaxation, and serve as inspiration.

Pluto- just like Mars provokes, but on a more subtle psychological level. If he makes tense aspects to the angles or to their rulers, it can be interpreted as fatal circumstances (what kind of circumstances - see the house in which he stands in the natal).

Tense aspects Pluto is carefully squeezing/squeezing functions out of the partner’s aspected planets, provoking them to take some risk. So the opposition of the Moon with Pluto is not only sexual attraction (see above), but also inciting the cautious Moon to adventure, that is, extreme sensations, squeezing emotions out of her. When I observed the opposition of Jupiter with Pluto, Pluto “squeezed” optimism out of the Jupiter person so that he would always be with him in good mood, although it was not said openly, the Jupiter man felt such a strange pressure, as if he was constantly expected to have a joyful facial expression and the phrases: “Everything will be fine with you!” Well, of course, Pluto can also be dissatisfied, like Mars, but instead of an open fight, he will try to adjust/transform you to suit himself. Moreover, after a relationship, the owner of the planet can safely say that they were instructive for him, he developed in them (approx. Solovushka)

Harmonious Aspects Pluto, like Mars, provides support and stimulation, but not on a physical level, but on a psychological one.

Nodes and Lilith - I don’t like to consider fictitious points in the synastry, and without them there is enough information, but if you are interested, the partile connection of personal planets with the southern node or Lilith of the partner is considered a karmic relationship, this means that it is difficult together, since you are working out some lessons/debts from a past life (see the symbolism of the planet in conjunction and the aspects of Saturn) and being apart is bad, it is impossible to part until you work through everything.

It is believed that in conjunction with Lilith, it is its owner who “hangs” on the functions of the partner’s planet, becomes vampiric and cannot let go. But there is also another opinion:

Alina: If a person’s planets align with my Lilith, this person is not very pleasant to me, and I definitely don’t cling to him. And he, if this is MCH, has a very strong and lasting interest in me for years, for example, such a strange love... And F reacts to me inappropriately, attributing something that is not there, and is even jealous! But I won’t expect indifference from her! The trick is that I myself am indifferent to them. The owner of Lilith is violet, and his partners are tense.

The rest of the karma in relationships is well written here: http://forum..php?m=sr&it=27855

Planets in partner's houses A separate extensive topic, we touched on it slightly:

Light: Doma is a passive observer of the activity of an alien planet.

For example, Venus in my 8 - makes the owner of this Venus show properties that may not be inherent to her, but if she is aspected by my planets, then I will see something diabolical in this planet, and the rest simply see a twin Venus, well, not possessing any there are some serious properties there. And the owner of the planet in my 8th house will not be very comfortable, since I too can bring this planet into crisis and this relationship can cost it dearly. These relationships can be experienced with love by the owner of the planet or vice versa, but there will always be anxiety. The owner of a house can “buy” love, but as they say, for every “purchase” in life you have to pay

Mashina: Hitting planets on the 1st very important, especially on Asc. For example, when Mars hits the first, I feel causeless irritation at the owner of Mars; when the Sun hits the first, it is important for me that the owner is always sunny. I can hardly stand the despondent mood of such a person. When Saturn gets into the 1st - just boas and rabbits. She just passed terribly for no reason (Author’s note: this happened too, I just felt a lot of tension in the presence of the owner of Saturn on my Asc, I was afraid to make an extra wrong move, or something wrong to say). Lilith in my first - the man was sure that I directly saw only shortcomings in him: “You, grit, are holding me by the f***.” Well, I really saw them clearly.

http://forum..php?m=sr&it=28075 - topic 2-8 houses in relationships, giving and receiving in synastry.

If the partner’s planets fall into our 5th house, we like their functions, this is what we notice in a person that is pleasant for us at first sight. For example, in the synastry of my friends, the girl’s Mars falls in the guy’s 5th house, and her Uranus falls in her: he fell in love with her when he heard how sexually she swears, and she fell for him because he behaved like an idiot, very shocking.

Light: it is important that the planets fall into 4th and 6th house- ability and desire to take care of each other. The one who has the partner’s planet in the house shows concern. Another opinion:

Canela: he does not serve whose house or whose planets; when hit, the sphere of the house itself and the action of the planet gain greater scope and become manifest.

http://astropro.ru/catket/?p=blog&id=6301 - a planet that falls into 8th house partner, serves as a gradual incitement to a crisis in a relationship and, as a result, often becomes the cause of separation in the opinion of the owner of the 8th house.

Jia: But also, depending on who. This situation can hit finances or play out as a very strong, drug addiction for the owner of the eighth house according to the functions of the planets that fall to him, and to the point of stupor, as a rule. Of course, it also depends on the house - the 8th Aquarius and Scorpio - the difference is significant.

Venena: With an Aquarius you won't get caught up in drama. 8 Scorpio probably gets a thrill from such irritation, which is where the stickiness comes from.

If you want to know what it will be like for you to have sex with your partner, the 8th house will also come in handy. Consider the aspects of exercise 8 and the planets in 8 with the partner planets. For example, one acquaintance recalled the worst sex with me, as dirty in the literal sense, even in terms of hygiene. In his synastry with the young lady, his ex.6 Neptune squared her 8th house Mars. He also mentioned that in bed she behaved like a log, did not react in any way to his caresses: his exercise 8 Venus trine her Saturn. Good sexual compatibility involves intense or harmonious aspects of Mars and Pluto with the elements of the 8th house.

March 5th, 2015 , 09:00 am

I received six letters in the “Three VA” section with questions on the topic sexual aspects.
After thinking about it, I decided to answer everything at once today.

Sexual planets of a man (both day and night born) - Moon And Venus.
Sexual planets of a woman (both day and night born) - Sun And Mars.

In the love synastry you need to look for:

- aspects between the Moon ( m.) and the Sun ( and.)
- aspects between the Moon ( m.) and Mars ( and.)
- aspects between Venus ( m.) and the Sun ( and.)
- aspects between Venus ( m.) and Mars ( and.)

At first, astronomers should recheck, looking for:

- aspects between the Sun ( and.) and the Moon ( m.)
- aspects between the Sun ( and.) and Venus ( m.)
- aspects between Mars ( and.) and Venus ( m.)
- aspects between Mars ( and.) and the Moon ( m.)

The above aspects must be. Not everything, but at least something. Otherwise couple in bed common language will not find it, even if the man arranges the bed according to Feng Shui, and the woman rehearses all the Kama Sutra poses with a fitness trainer.

For marriage, sexual aspects are not a stumbling block. They are important for sex.
For those who cannot imagine how you can live with one and sleep with another, they are important.

Offtopic. Aspect Mars - Mars no need to search! Mars is Not male potency, as some people mistakenly believe.

Quality aspects. Harmonious or inharmonious - it doesn’t matter. S.V. Shestopalov names inharmonious aspects between sexual planets " African passions" : met and ran away.

Some of his followers believe that this is a sign of lovers ( irregular meetings).

In practice, I note that there is no smell of any lovers here. There may be a banal inconsistency of temperaments, even if quality temperaments are one. Even if both spouses have low temperament, they both want few sex, they are satisfied with this frequency. But oppositions and squares between sexual planets will indicate that they want sex in different times. Equally little, but let it be on different days of the week. Or in different months. If the temperament is equally high, then, for example, at different hours: a woman is aroused at exactly 12, a man at exactly 19.

Here you can come to a consensus if you know about the problem and have the desire to solve it.

Number of aspects. At least one. Ideally, if this is an exact aspect with the participation of the Luminaries. For example, the combination Sun (f.) - 120 - Moon (m.). Couples with the same sexual aspect can find an approach to each other, if not in bed, then certainly in the office of a sexologist or astrologer. Better yet And sexologist, And astrologer. Actually, a good astrologer will find the problem by studying the psychotype of each partner, and a sexologist will solve this problem. I consider two aspects to be the norm for a harmonious long-term relationship.

The three aspects are ideal lovers. Four is a dream; in practice, I have encountered such an idyll only three times. One of the couples was quite advanced in age, but noble gray hair and radiculitis did not interfere with the sex life of the happy spouses.

That's all for today. Tomorrow we'll talk about orbs and naming aspects.

Maria Vlasova.

Sun conjunct the Sun
This aspect creates a natural warmth and attraction towards a similar perspective in life. There is a strong competitive tendency here which can bring out the best in both individuals. Since two birthdays fall on the same day or within one day of each other, there is some difficulty in achieving balance in the relationship. The subjective experiences of both people may be so similar that one may be depressed or elated at the same time as the other. Other planets in the charts should be considered to see if the subjective energy will be balanced somewhere else.

Man's Sun conjunct woman's Moon
This is an excellent combination for bringing out the natural brilliance in a man, as women are receptive to it. The relationship will be dominated by the man, but the woman may play a protective maternal role. This aspect brings insight and understanding to the partnership, as well as the traditional perspective of marriage. This relationship has creativity and feeling - two necessary components for a complete experience.

A woman's Sun conjunct a man's Moon
This aspect symbolizes relationships in which the woman dominates. Although there is a natural affinity between two individuals, the man ultimately becomes the woman's receptive follower. With this basis of relationships, various shapes resentment and indignation. If a man can assume a role that reflects the light and strength of a woman, this aspect can prove to be the basis for a compatible union.

Man's Sun conjunct woman's Mercury
This aspect enhances mental awareness and creates relationships based on good communication. In these relationships, the woman is valued for her ability to express ideas rather than for her femininity. Because the Sun is the center solar system, the center of this relationship is the man. The woman finds that her ideas are easily accepted and encouraged thanks to the optimism emanating from her partner.

A woman's Sun conjunct a man's Mercury
This aspect creates a relationship with a strong female dominant. A man may feel threatened by them because he is afraid of being reduced to the role of a child. He can learn a lot from a woman, since she values ​​him not for his sexuality, but for his mental potential. She will support him with warmth and optimism, helping to develop his mind.

Man's Sun conjunct woman's Venus
This aspect indicates natural warmth and consideration in relationships. At subconscious levels, their place is a habitual care, much like the exchange between father and daughter. Material and spiritual wealth is possible. The radiance of the Sun and the love symbolized by Venus come together to create a sense of harmony.

A woman's Sun conjunct a man's Venus
This aspect appears in relationships in which the man may have been pampered in a past life. Now he must draw masculine strength from strong woman. She represents the center of these relationships. Thanks to her “shine” and support, his creative abilities are revealed. The woman will continue to generate additional power because her subconscious animus figure will manifest through the man.

Man's Sun conjunct woman's Mars
This aspect indicates an active and progressive relationship. A woman can draw strength from a man and take action necessary actions in life thanks to the influence of a partner. There may be rivalry between them, but this energy can be transformed through a common interest in sports and activism. Increased sexuality is possible, as a woman is attracted to physical and emotional competition with her partner.

A woman's Sun conjunct a man's Mars
In this aspect, the man tries to impress his partner because he perceives her sense of strength and pride as an obstacle that must be overcome. Aggressive sexuality is possible. There is a strong urge for activity, achievement and progress. Two flames burn as one.

Man's Sun conjunct woman's Jupiter
The result of this aspect can be an abundance or dispersion of energy, as it enhances and expands the experiences of both individuals. The man is focused, while the woman strives for freedom. Along with positive energy, there may be some disappointment on the part of the man. He thinks he must hold tight to his space. The woman feels both the urge to run away and the attraction to her partner. Having this aspect, they may want to pursue greater wealth, or invest energy in higher education.

Man's Sun conjunct woman's Saturn
This aspect creates sober relationships based on the soundness of female prudence. The overflowing energy of a man is restrained by the mature wisdom of his partner. Role-playing games are possible here, since a woman tends to subconsciously project the image of her father onto her partner. As a result, she fulfills karma by teaching him how to develop a strong sense of inner security and confidence. The strength of this aspect can help a relationship get through the most difficult obstacles, as a woman's sense of values ​​and ability to make good sense (from the past) are added to everything that her partner supports in the present. The man, like an eagle in a nest, proudly looks around his possessions. A woman provides a reliable fortress that will support his strength.

A woman's Sun conjunct a man's Saturn
Here the man provides the woman with his maturity and wisdom. He adds dignity, correctness and observance of social traditions to her life style. As a result, the relationship begins to symbolize something greater than the two people involved. The man fulfills the karma of giving strength to his partner, and the woman begins to understand her potential. This is a strong bond for marriage as it strengthens over the years. A woman is like flowering plant, and the man guards its flowering.

Man's Sun conjunct woman's Uranus
In this aspect, relationships are especially lively. The woman has excited and eccentric ideas that make the man focus on his own strength. There will be many changes, surprises and unexpected events. A constant state of nervousness or sparkling electricity may be the norm in these relationships. This type of relationship symbolizes the conflict between the traditional and the eccentric. Although there is a lot of excitement, the relationship lacks the stability needed to last unless the partners are truly mature.

A woman's Sun conjunct a man's Uranus
Here, a woman who is trying to be herself must confront a man who is trying to change her. She finds him attractive and is attracted to his unconventional manners. When strength and will are united, there must be a sense of direction, since both forces need a common goal. Without it, relationships can be active but fragile, reminiscent of the short-lived vibrancy of a holiday park on Independence Day.

Man's Sun conjunct woman's Neptune
The man's strength and pride combined with the woman's subtle tricks make this an intriguing but difficult relationship. The Sun and Neptune symbolize Light and Love, the divine forces necessary for spiritual achievement. In this relationship, both people need to be caring and sensitive to each other. If so, their union will be like a frothy stream of impressions sparkling in the morning light. If this is not the case, the relationship takes on the features of thick clouds hiding the sun.

A woman's Sun conjunct a man's Neptune
Here a man charms a woman. With gentle sympathy, he can reveal her artistic sensibility. The man may be evasive as he tries to gain some vague or mystical sense of power. If both partners have realistic goals, then intuitive communication and mutual sensitivity to non-verbal communication of thoughts will increasingly bring them together. A man understands a woman in the same way that water understands the sun, which warms it.

Man's Sun conjunct woman's Pluto
This aspect speaks of the possibility of unstable relationships. The combination of the darkness of a woman's subconscious urges and the light of a man creates ardent extremes. Everything experiences the best and the worst. A man can transform a woman with his light, and she can lead him to depths he never knew existed. The fountain of truth flows from the well.

A woman's Sun conjunct a man's Pluto
This aspect suggests the possibility of an exploitative relationship because the man may be trying to find value in his partner that he cannot find in himself. At the same time, the woman tries to transform her partner by giving him her light. She usually suffers as he brings her into contact with forces for which she may not be prepared. If the relationship continues, she becomes stronger and may eventually learn to find the depths within herself that the man has revealed to her. It is only after experiencing what seemed like an eclipse at noon that the woman begins to understand the reason for the mystical depths she has experienced.

Sun square the Sun
This is a very difficult aspect. Both individuals strive to achieve self-realization, but since their life paths are different, there will be some struggle. Life together is like monotonous mechanical work with disappointments and obstacles to progress. However, obstacles are a path paved with stones to gain strength. If a woman realizes that the ability to identify with her femininity is secondary to identifying with her full self, then difficulties can be replaced by a balanced optimism that leads to mutual self-esteem and new awareness. Two light sources are waiting for their turn to shine.

A man's Sun squares a woman's Moon
This aspect is the cause of difficulties between partners, as they try to achieve their instinctual identity. Both may have the same goal, but due to past circumstances, each has a different idea of ​​how to get there. A man must overcome subconscious memories of his mother; a woman must stop submitting to the subconscious idea of ​​her father. If this is achieved, the relationship can work for the benefit of both partners.

A woman's Sun squares a man's Moon
This aspect causes difficulties in perception and understanding. Feelings, viewpoints and principles are often misunderstood as each individual struggles internally with regard to sexual expression. A woman may doubt her femininity, and a man may doubt his masculinity. This personal problem will color the relationship, blocking more important aspirations, until each partner learns to overcome the anima/animus role reversals through which they test each other.

Man's Sun square woman's Mercury
Here the man views the woman as " difficult task"He may want to influence the development of her femininity and sexuality. She may respond to him more on a platonic level or as a father figure. The tension caused by the mental interchange of ideas promotes growth, but the tenderness needed in a man-woman relationship may be difficult find your expression.

Woman's Sun square man's Mercury
This aspect works well in platonic relationships because a woman may subconsciously view her partner as a brother figure. In marriage or in long-term sexual relationships, a man's expectations may not be met. Tensions may appear that are difficult to express, causing a lack of emotional satisfaction that ends in disappointment. However, in a work or platonic relationship, this aspect can generate a lot of interesting ideas and work energy, even if the inner harmony necessary for joint activities is imperfect.

Man's Sun square woman's Venus
This is one of the most frustrating aspects in astrology. It creates sexual attraction and each individual hopes to find what he is looking for in the other. But the relationship does not seem to achieve its goal. A woman may have some serious flaw that makes her vulnerable, and a man may lack the self-knowledge necessary to express the potential that a woman sees in him. As a result, this aspect can be a source of internal frustration for both people.

A woman's Sun squares a man's Venus
This aspect indicates a tendency towards a reversal of male and female roles on a subconscious level. A woman often tries to find herself through the masculine energy expressed by her partner, but she does not see him as a man. Conversely, a man sees everything he aspires to be in his female partner, but does not recognize her femininity. Instead, he experiences his own feminine side, which can be called an anima projection. The woman may be working her way through a past conflict with her father. The man continues to search for his male role. If two people are not mature enough to navigate their way through these difficulties in previous relationships, their relationship may reach a dead end.

Man's Sun square woman's Mars
This aspect causes strong disagreements that make relationships almost impossible. A man feels that his masculine power is projected onto him instead of coming from him, while a woman may be desperately searching for her femininity. There may be strong sexual energy in a relationship, but because of its double positive polarity, neither partner fully understands how to balance this energy.

A woman's Sun squares a man's Mars
This aspect indicates the impulsiveness of the relationship. The energetic qualities of a man ignite a reciprocal vibration in a woman. She must use her position of authority and power (i.e. her masculine side) to withstand the frenzied attack of the attacking knight in shining armor. Even if there are romantic overtones in a relationship, they are usually secondary to the battles through which each individual tests his assertiveness.

Man's Sun square woman's Jupiter
This aspect causes significant differences in ideology, which become more important as the relationship develops than at the very beginning. Battles of values ​​over differences regarding truth, honor, dignity, religion or education give rise to personal autonomy, which becomes the focal point for quarrels. The independence of each person is emphasized.

A woman's Sun squares a man's Jupiter
This aspect produces a prevailing tone of self-righteous independence that makes it difficult for each person to approach the other. A man's sense of philosophical distance makes a woman feel that her individuality is not as important in the relationship as it should be. As a result, each individual feels frustrated at not being able to get close to the other. These relationships may indicate fun and excitement, but too little real bonding occurs at the level where minds and hearts meet.

Man's Sun square woman's Saturn
This aspect creates difficult karmic relationships. The man symbolically strives to overcome his father's limitations. He subconsciously chose this relationship because he is exploring the value of transcending the limits of his heredity. He may doubt whether he can cope with the guilt complex involved in this process. He may represent a woman in a paternal role, as she symbolically represents the limitations and traditions that he intends to overcome. A woman can see that she is depriving herself of freedom in this relationship. The man gives her hope and optimism, but she must also cope with a strong earthly reality. There may be many hidden challenges here, since both partners are aware of the need to achieve. Through struggle, each tries to strengthen and maintain the dignity of the other. A man may outgrow his partner over time, but if this happens, he must help her build her self-esteem

Woman's Sun square man's Saturn
With this difficult karmic aspect, a woman may subconsciously try to eclipse the image of her father, the expectations of her family, or the traditions that have shaped her life. She may view the man as a symbolic, limiting authority figure whom she must transcend if she is to find herself. He, in turn, tries to ground the relationship, bringing it to reality and responsibility. Complex problems and disappointments are caused by a woman's feeling that she is deprived of the opportunity to experience full acceptance. As a result, there may be obstacles and limitations that can only be overcome when she realizes the full power of her Self. She must protect a man's dignity and respect (even if his ideas conflict with hers) before she can fully understand her own strength.

Man's Sun square woman's Uranus
In this aspect, the man must re-evaluate his concept of "woman" as she refuses to yield to his leadership. The woman believes that she can better help him due to her different approach to life, however, due to the pride symbolized by the Sun, the man finds it difficult to accept her unorthodox behavior, since he would prefer to see her in a more “normal” female role. Her unpredictability is interpreted as a threat, as he is often unable to control her or her sexuality. Despite these difficulties, this aspect can be excellent for growth, as achievement may be driven by progressive ideas, but the relationship lacks the receptive compliance necessary for a lasting partnership.

Woman's Sun square man's Uranus
This aspect is disappointing. A woman sees inconsistency in a man and feels that he does not really appreciate her warmth. There may be numerous changes in direction in a relationship, often unpredictable and without any obvious reason. The spark present at the beginning of a relationship often creates an expectation of too much fun, too much excitement and anxiety. The woman eventually realizes that the man she has chosen lacks the correctness and thoroughness for which she strives.

Man's Sun square woman's Neptune
This aspect can bring romance, but can also hinder formative quality, i.e. the main goal in a long-term relationship. It is difficult for a man to understand the psychic wavelength of his partner, since a woman tends to withdraw into other " psychic spheres". This causes difficulty in communicating on internal levels. As a result, the man constantly strives for a woman, but never achieves her. This situation, reminiscent of constant courtship, eventually leads the man to the realization that he is always left empty-handed. If the relationship is to work, the woman needs to understand that she cannot constantly mislead him.

A woman's Sun squares a man's Neptune
Here we discover the deception “built-in” into relationships. A woman may have overly idealistic expectations that her partner cannot meet. Often the attraction is based only on physical appearance and on the dreams that this image excites in the woman’s subconscious. When reality rears its head, a woman may discover that a man is not a dream at all, but a very real person. The presented image may not be consistent with his real “I”. This aspect seems to encourage a man to rely on his partner for inspiration, faith, hope, or realistically achieving his dreams. The main difficulty arises from the fact that if he seeks his own reality through a woman, she expects him to be the reality on which her dreams can be built. Such relationships are frustrating.

Man's Sun square woman's Pluto
This aspect seems to increase subconscious paranoia towards opposite sex. The attraction is so strong that the woman feels it to the very depths and withdraws into herself for protection. Both people are afraid of being too open with each other; being too open means being too vulnerable. They may have an almost obsessive interest in each other, while craving the distance that symbolizes security.

Woman's Sun square man's Pluto
This aspect can bring deep understanding that initially causes misunderstandings. Each person must respond to new inner sources before he can properly understand the other. A woman can be seen by a man as a chaste maiden of light. He, in turn, is seen as the force that can overcome her virginity. She trusts him, but he may not trust himself. When light and dark forces interchange, great power arises that can help relationships flourish. But first, everyone must understand the personal concept of his “I”.

Sun in trine to the Sun
The spirit of interaction and harmony allows each partner to experience a sense of ease and optimism. Luck, happiness, material and spiritual wealth are possible, since life path each person provides additional favorable opportunities for the other. Both light sources illuminate each other's path.

Man's Sun trine woman's Moon
Here we find cooperation without competition. True communication can occur on many levels, as each individual has the necessary qualities to balance the other. "Parental remnant" in subconscious memories, which is integral part relationship, adds color, flavor, a sense of direction and meaning to what is already an excellent partnership.

Woman's Sun trine man's Moon
This aspect allows a woman to express herself easily. She tends to lead relationships, and cooperation is easy for a man. He relies on her advice, trusts her wisdom and views her as a light in which he can reflect. At the same time, by accepting the role of his mother, he discovers great happiness in his family.

Man's Sun trine woman's Mercury
The key note of these relationships is an atmosphere of understanding and mutual interest. A man can share his partner's ideas, and a woman can explain his goal. All activity is colored by mutual cooperation. Sometimes a woman is highly revered for her ability to understand this relationship. This aspect can have a platonic note, which means a focus on the woman's alertness of mind. This mental alertness is valuable quality, since a woman helps a man understand his energy.

Woman's Sun trine man's Mercury
This is an excellent aspect for joint activities that stimulate and satisfy both partners. Each of them is capable of self-reflection, since each finds answers to their questions in the other. Communication is emphasized here because the need for understanding makes it possible for each of them to listen to the other.

Man's Sun trine woman's Venus
This aspect brings a sense of ease into the relationship, but can cause some laziness, as each partner feels satisfied with the other. Material and spiritual wealth is possible here, since relationships are focused on cooperation. A man plays the role of a patron and protector, he is able to take on the necessary burden, a woman is accommodating and is able to yield to her Apollo.

Woman's Sun trine man's Venus
This aspect appears to remove friction from relationships, thus increasing harmony. Without friction, however, there is little incentive to grow. These people may lack challenges. In this case, the relationship has a female orientation, and the man plays a collaborating, but very secondary role for the subconscious comparison of the woman with her father. She feels protected from the inside. He feels freed from the burden assumed by those people who play the full “male” role.

Man's Sun trine woman's Mars
Activity, achievement and a general sense of movement are the essence of this aspect. The relationship has a masculine orientation, since the woman tends to subconsciously identify with her animus figure. At the same time, the man views her cooperative spirit as a valuable contribution to his ego expression. Pride, achievement, and the ability to master difficult situations add a note of happiness to this partnership.

Woman's Sun trine man's Mars
This is an excellent aspect for marriage. A man's energetic assertiveness expresses a woman's desires in a coordinated manner. She encourages and encourages him and gives hope and faith to his intentions. These relationships are characterized by a good level of sexual attraction. The pursuit of goals is easy.

Man's Sun trine woman's Jupiter
This aspect indicates a compatible philosophy and a coherent outlook on life. Both partners feel the importance of understanding and truthfulness. The woman is proud of this relationship, and this feeling increases her desire to give love. This aspect enhances the luck and brilliance of the partnership.

Woman's Sun trine man's Jupiter
This aspect brings foresight and wisdom to relationships. They have an interest in expansion and travel. A man can lead his partner through truthfulness and the kind of leadership that engenders mutual respect and trust. There is an element of chance or unpredictability associated with this aspect, and this can lead to risky ventures, dissipation (especially in investments) and a need for personal freedom. Ultimately, these interests can work positively as factors that create expansive and open relationships.

Man's Sun trine woman's Saturn
This aspect creates sober and reasonable relationships. A woman, using patronage and a sense of wisdom, helps a man realize his potential. Goals, ideals and the ability to build on the traditions of the past are important here. Relationships are male-centered because the woman tends to subconsciously attribute to her partner the same prudence and wisdom that she acquired from her father.

Woman's Sun trine man's Saturn
This aspect brings a strong focus on enhancing the status of both partners. There may be a need to find some "right" level in life. A woman acts optimistically within the parameters set by a man. This relationship easily operates within the framework of the general course and restrictions dictated by both partners. If this relationship ends in marriage, great wealth can be accumulated later.

Man's Sun trine woman's Uranus
With this aspect, the man is fascinated by the multifaceted experience that opens up to him due to contact with this woman. She provides the excitement he needs in life. He becomes her source of inspiration. These relationships can be interesting and progressive; both partners can change and grow in interaction with each other. A woman is always attractive to a partner because of her sense of isolation, which serves as an eternal mystery to him.

Woman's Sun trine man's Uranus
Here the woman is amazed at the man's adaptability to change. She views him as an unattainable ideal, and as a result, he becomes increasingly confident in his ability to transcend the traditional norms of society. This aspect requires a woman to have strength and self-confidence so that the relationship can be strong and lasting.

Man's Sun trine woman's Neptune
Here the forces of love and light are mixed into a soft aesthetic combination that is comfortable and calming for both partners. These relationships are characterized by an abundance of warmth, artistic creativity and even tacit understanding between people. A man is in love with a dream, and a woman imagines herself as part of this dream. The light emanating from a man illuminates her fantasies and strengthens his ego. This partnership includes silent participation, which is the essence of harmony.

Woman's Sun trine man's Neptune
Here a man makes a woman's dreams come true. His charm intrigues her, his unattainable quality puzzles her and challenges her Sun's power to shine with full brilliance. The more she tries to understand her partner, the more contact she gains with herself. A man sees some of his dreams take shape because of a woman's steady and focused realism. This aspect adds a note of romantic aura and idealization to the relationship.

Man's Sun trine woman's Pluto
Here the forces of light and darkness mingle together to develop a feeling of unified strength that helps both partners experience the best of both worlds. A man brings out raw energy in a woman, which helps her realize her power. By polishing her natural talents and developing strength, she lifts her partner to the greatest heights. There are many transformations associated with this aspect. Truth and light men can use the raw energy symbolized by Pluto to make discoveries. A woman's subconscious energy needs to be developed and cut before it can sparkle like a diamond.

Woman's Sun trine man's Pluto
With this aspect, a constant regeneration similar to sexual power is brought to the surface and brought to awareness. A woman realizes that a man has the qualities necessary for her transformation. When a man subconsciously tries to control the light of a woman, he unintentionally comes to the truth. The result of this aspect can be wisdom, wealth and strength, and both individuals eventually come to realize the richness of their inner existence.

Sun in opposition to the Sun
This aspect rarely leaves people indifferent. Either they begin to attract each other, like two opposites, or repulsion immediately arises. Undeveloped opposition will manifest itself as a constant struggle for leadership, in which everyone will stubbornly remain in their own opinion; there will be great difficulties in mutual adaptation. Main
the task of the aspect is the coordination of initiatives and decisions, the division of roles, in which each of the partners will alternately be either the initiating party or the supporting one. When worked through, the aspect gives a good unification of two people for their common tasks, based on the correct choice of compromises in their decisions.

A man's Sun is in opposition to a woman's Moon
This aspect emphasizes the need to overcome parental problems. The man works out the difficulties he had with his mother, while the woman works out the difficulties she had with her father. Because of this interaction, each can help the other grow and develop. There may be friction in this process. Each partner is forced to face the figures of anima (for a man) and animus (for a woman). There is a transformation of subconscious expectations regarding these figures. This aspect is difficult for a marriage because the natural harmony needed in the relationship is eclipsed by the need to free oneself from early childhood impressions.

A woman's Sun is in opposition to a man's Moon
This aspect brings out childhood memories of the man's relationship with his mother. The woman appears to dominate the relationship, while the man, against his will, begins to gain new insight into his childhood. The woman feels that she is burdened with a dual role: lover and wife, as well as mother. She may not like this role. This aspect is especially difficult for marriage.

Man's Sun in opposition to woman's Mercury
This is a particularly frustrating aspect for a woman, as she feels that her partner misunderstands her femininity and that her ideas are very different from his. Communication can be difficult because the man subconsciously refers to the "boy" rather than the woman. This aspect is difficult for any relationship, especially marriage.

A woman's Sun is in opposition to a man's Mercury
Here the woman often has pride, figure and importance, while the man behaves childishly, although perhaps this happens subconsciously. A man may feel some kind of threat from his partner and his own insignificance, these feelings force him to take a closer look at the inner strength that he might otherwise ignore. The woman is waiting for him to express what she already knows he will say. This aspect is not desirable for a long-term relationship, but it can be beneficial for both individuals for a short period of time.

A man's Sun is in opposition to a woman's Venus
This aspect brings attraction and also indicates stagnation of the natural flow of love for light. Although a woman is attracted to a man, her concept of love is contrary to what he can give her. He must either stop being himself in order to be what she needs, or learn to accept the reserve and distance that neither of them really wants. Both partners can achieve great wealth, but real manifestation will be achieved only through labor. However, subconscious laziness can slow down their progress.

A woman's Sun is in opposition to a man's Venus
This aspect tests the role individuality of both partners. A woman, in order to be herself, must often go against her natural loving instincts, while a man, attracted by her strength, is inclined to yield to the “male will” that he sees in her. A man admires a woman, but lacks self-satisfaction.

A man's Sun is in opposition to a woman's Mars
This is the aspect of quarrels. The woman is more persistent and energetic than the man expected, so there is strong rivalry in the relationship between them. Each of them becomes more independent as a result of knowing the other. Partners may experience distance rather than closerness to each other.

A woman's Sun is in opposition to a man's Mars
Competition, overflowing energy and ego battles are the characteristics of this aspect. The male ego strives for supremacy, while the female often fails. Sexuality lacks the tenderness that indicates real caring and may be more a manifestation of subconscious desires aimed at overcoming a challenge than an expression of love. Relationships tend to reveal an inherent wildness that makes marriage or long-term partnership very difficult.

Man's Sun in opposition to woman's Jupiter
This aspect indicates differences in the basic philosophy of life. Each person tends to remain an individualist, without developing the sense of participation that gives warmth to relationships. This relationship is characterized by a lot of travel or great wealth, however, the woman may lose some of her femininity and perhaps sexuality as she feels pressured to compete for the recognition that comes from her partner. This is a very difficult aspect for a marriage.

A woman's Sun is in opposition to a man's Jupiter
This aspect adds an element of chance to the relationship and destroys the sense of security. Although both partners retain a sense of individual freedom, the woman often provides protection for both. Lack of communication and understanding causes two life styles to pull in opposite directions. If this relationship is going to work, each partner must re-evaluate their principles and philosophy over time.

Man's Sun in opposition to woman's Saturn
This aspect causes heavy responsibility for a woman. In her efforts to cope, she may rely on memories of her father, whose lifestyle was significantly different from her partner's. The result of disputes and struggle will be the strengthening of her inner spiritual world. A man feels that his life becomes more responsible because of the seriousness that he perceives in his partner. These relationships can be difficult, but lasting, as each partner learns karmic lessons of strength, patience and prudence.

A woman's Sun is in opposition to a man's Saturn
This aspect creates a situation of "slavery". A woman's flamboyance can be almost completely suppressed by her partner's overly protective or overbearing attitudes. He may imagine himself as a sage when he is around her, secretly feeling younger because of her, but hiding it for fear of losing his authoritative role. Relationships can last long if the woman does not have a strong need to fully express her sunny personality.

Man's Sun in opposition to woman's Uranus
This is one of the most difficult aspects of relationships. Over time, a man begins to consider a woman insensitive, while she tries to defend her free will. Sexual attraction is unstable and sometimes absent. A man may feel that the burden of the relationship is placed on him. Although a man has warm feelings for his partner, he may feel relieved if the relationship ends.

Woman's Sun in opposition to man's Uranus
A woman is proud of her partner's unconventional ingenuity. He relies on her confidence and protection and may view her as his anchor, reality, audience, patron, and even the center of his existence. However, due to a conflict of interests, he may subconsciously deprive her of the intimacy she needs. As a result of this exchange, the woman learns to be more independent, while her partner is forced to learn the value of warmth, tradition and responsibility. At best, this is a difficult aspect for a long-term relationship.

A man's Sun is in opposition to a woman's Neptune
This aspect creates a lack of trust on the part of the man. Although he is attracted to a woman, he cannot truly trust what he cannot understand. Often a very strong sexual attraction is possible, but the man involved in the relationship feels that he is losing himself in some inexplicable thin fog.

A woman's Sun is in opposition to a man's Neptune
This aspect makes it difficult for a woman to trust her partner. Promises may be broken before he comes close to keeping them. Intrigue, charm, mysterious longing are all involved in the relationship, but the woman feels that she must fight to maintain a sense of discretion.

Man's Sun in opposition to woman's Pluto
This is a difficult aspect for a long-term relationship. It creates a strong sexual attraction, but a significant distance separates the two people. A man may have a tendency to humiliate a woman, as if showing her the most miserable past helps him find the noblest traits in himself. The struggle between the forces of light and darkness becomes a constant source of irritation. But even so, this relationship can lead to significant growth as both partners try to figure out whether night follows day or day follows night.

A woman's Sun is in opposition to a man's Pluto
This aspect seems to create an arena for animal instincts to come to the surface. The honor and nobility of a woman are literally destroyed by the rudeness of a man when he moves from the very bottom internal depths to get in touch with her light. At this time she can gain spiritual strength, as he begins to realize that there is more high levels Plutonian energy. With this aspect, sexual degradation sometimes appears, but if a woman has high moral ideals, she will be protected from it. If a woman gives in at the beginning of this relationship, she will eventually rise as her sense of honor and self-worth becomes stronger as a result of the challenges.

Pluto in astrology plays the role of the arbiter of destinies and is the natural rulereighth house. He is responsible for death and rebirth, esoteric knowledge and transformation. The owner of the horoscope is constantly in tension and waiting for the next trick from life. This habitual state leads to thirst extreme situations, which allow him to feel life in its full manifestation.

can be compared to the mythical phoenix bird, which dies in fire and then comes to life again from the ashes, ready for a new life and challenges. A person who finds himself in a crisis situation and survives feels strong changes in himself due to symbolic rebirth. When it seems to him that he is crushed and at a dead end, in fact, he is experiencing the end of a difficult period and the onset of a new stage in life. The planet knows how to reward for endurance and willpower, and when it takes something away, it always sends a reward.

Pluto is the natural ruler of the sign Scorpio, which is responsible for sexuality, power and magic. This position of the planet means that the owner of the horoscope is a magician who knows how to control people and subjugate them to his will. He knows how to foresee the future, but his expectations of troubles are confused with premonitions and do not allow him to make correct predictions. The owner of this position is always on guard: he expects the worst, but hopes for the best. Not every human mind can withstand such a load, but Pluto in the eighth house is capable of not such “miracles.”

It is worth considering the aspects of other planets to the “arbiter of destinies.” All of them indicate the development of the spiritual sphere and are mandatory tests. All the events described by Pluto standing in the eighth house are inevitable, like death itself. Fate will be “merciless” until a person realizes what exactly he should learn from the events that have occurred. No matter how meaningless the actions taking place may seem, they carry meaning and draw hidden reserves to the surface. Difficulties are given by fate so that a person learns to react to them correctly. Only in this way will he rise higher spiritually, become stronger and wiser.

Jupiter, known as the benefactor planet, is responsible for happiness in relationships. Luck, luck and future prospects depend on it. Favorable degrees of Jupiter to any personal planet (Sun, Moon, Venus) is called the “aspect of happiness”. He in the best possible way affects relationships and mitigates many negative aspects.

The strongest manifestation of Jupiter’s connection with personal planets:

1. Conjunction of Jupiter and Sun. This aspect fills relationships with optimism, happiness and hope. It promotes spiritual growth, helps to acquire and accumulate material wealth. Partners treat each other with kindness and nobility. The Jupiter man supports and protects his loved one, and the Sun man feels happy next to his loved one.
2. Jupiter sextile the Sun. Helps family relations gain mutual understanding, strength and harmony. Partners travel a lot, play sports and discover new joint hobbies.
3. Jupiter in trine to the Sun. The aspect is the basis of mutual assistance and trust. The owner of Jupiter charges with optimism and lifts the mood of a loved one.

A square (90°) indicates a lack of self-discipline or a mature relationship. Emphasizes the independence, extravagance and arrogance of each partner. Opposition provokes differences in views on life, indulgence in extremes and indicates the selfishness of one of the partners.

Mars in Scorpio is a strong position of the planet in the natal chart. In harmonious aspects, it guarantees its owner a strong and decisive character. A person with this placement has endurance, self-control, insight, honesty and magnetism. He is fearless and intuitive, but his courage is observational. A person does not rush to the “battlefield”, but watches what is happening from the side. As if in the thick of things, but on safe distance. He loves risk, often finds himself in crisis situations, but gets out of the water unscathed, although he does not always draw the right conclusions.

A quiet life does not suit this position of Mars, and its owner feels life as a kind of battlefield. The more difficult life circumstances are, the stronger it becomes. After crisis situations, a person discovers in himself a reserve of strength that contributes to transformation, changes in character and outlook on life.

A person with Mars in Scorpio is vindictive and vindictive. He does not forget the insults inflicted and is ready to harm himself for the sake of revenge, just to get even with the enemy. His actions are clear and consistent, and it is impossible to defeat such an enemy. It is better not to stand in his way or betray his friendship. After all, this is a good friend who will always help out and come to the rescue.

Negative aspects incline a person to cruelty, sadism, alcoholism and push him onto the path of self-destruction. Affected Mars in Scorpio gives rise to rebels and desperate warriors. These are scandalous, very vindictive and painfully jealous people. They try to subjugate to their will by any means. They often choose the criminal path and can become both a victim and a criminal.

Mars in Scorpio in the women's horoscope

For a woman with Mars in Scorpio It's important to feel welcome and loved. She is very offended if she notices a lack of interest in herself on the part of her beloved man. In her opinion, if he does not demonstrate his feelings, then his love has cooled down. It will be difficult for her to live with a person who does not love her, and sooner or later the resentment will lead to a break in the relationship.

According to the Eastern calendar, 2019 falls under the influence of the Yellow Earth Pig. She will come to power on February 5, and the year under her rule will be remembered for pleasant events, changes and new acquaintances. Many people will stop worrying about the future or living in the past and learn to enjoy the present. Changes will occur due to the end of the twelve-year cycle, which the Pig closes.

Horoscope for 2019 for Aries

For representatives of this zodiac sign, the beginning of the year will be remembered for fateful meetings and unexpected turns of fate. In 2019, Aries will show a different side of themselves: they will avoid conflicts and demonstrative scandals. They will direct their bellicose character into the struggle for career growth, skillfully showing their strengths and masking their shortcomings.

In the new year, your financial situation will improve and you will have a chance to meet your love. Married couples will feel a renewal of feelings and will once again be dissuaded from making the right choice regarding the other half. Aries who are already in a relationship will delight each other with romantic surprises and gifts.

Many will have the opportunity to travel abroad and treat themselves to pleasant impressions. In the third decade of the year, health problems will appear, but if you notice the malaise in time, it will not turn into a protracted illness.

Horoscope for 2019 for Taurus

In the year of the Pig, Taurus needs not to forget about loved ones and pay more attention to them. You should not travel alone, since the stars do not guarantee protection, and a Taurus traveling alone will encounter many difficulties along the way.

Single representatives of this earth sign will have a chance to meet their future spouse, and established couples will want to formalize their relationship. Lovers and spouses will face misunderstandings that will arise due to financial differences. And not because Taurus will feel financial instability, but for the reason that they want to preserve and increase profits, and not spend it on buying expensive things.

The stars also advise against lending money and conflicts with partners or work colleagues. In 2019, Taurus needs to monitor their reputation and contain their outrage so that people do not get the wrong impression.

Planets in the seventh house of the horoscope:

Sun. The couple is prominent, beautiful and respected. Often spouses are engaged in the same business and run a joint business. The partner can be influential famous person. If the Sun is afflicted, the spouse is arrogant, selfish and capricious. Finds it difficult to compromise and makes demands on oneself increased attention. A harmonious luminary gives happiness and prosperity. If the Sun is in a fixed sign, the relationship is stable and harmonious. In a mutable relationship, everyone will “pull the blanket over themselves” and make excessive demands on their partner.

Moon. In a fixed sign, the night luminary creates favorable conditions for the development of relationships. When mutable, it tends towards divorce. With the Moon in the seventh house, relationships are filled with sensuality, intuition and tenderness. People strive for home comfort and comfort. They love to eat, sleep and strive to spend all their free time together. A woman expects devotion and protection from her husband. To be able to sympathize and guess her mood. A man is looking for a wife who looks like his mother. He needs a thrifty, caring and homely wife who will warm and feed him at the end of a hard day. Family life alternates with a calm and scandalous period, with hysterics, grievances and reconciliations.

Mercury. Both men and women need a partner who will become a friend, interlocutor and comrade of interests. Everyone expects a light, cheerful and inquisitive character from their loved one. The depth of feelings is not important, since love is viewed from the side of attachment, thanks to general views on life and an easy attitude towards it. The partner is usually younger in age, has poor eyesight, a stern, intelligent appearance and a passion for books.

Venus. This happy marriage, which is concluded out of love and exists for a long time. The husband is handsome, romantic and charming. Non-conflict and economic. If the planet is afflicted, he will be moody or lazy. The owner of this position strives for an ideal relationship and has inflated demands on the appearance of his loved one.

When the relationship is already in progress. We turned around.

There are general rules:

Any synastric aspects of the septener have a stronger influence than aspects with higher planets. Aspects only between the higher planets in the synastry are not felt at all.

The higher and social planets must be taken into account event-wise, as rulers. Or like planets in houses. For minors it’s always psychology.

Synastry can be energetic - these are aspects of planets to each other.

Synastry by house rulers - this gives and explains events. We don’t look at the characteristics of the planets. Only as stewards.

If a synastric planet, being in our house, does not make aspects, it will not give an event - but will only give coloring. For example, planets in your 8th house, but without aspects, this will not create a problem, but if there are aspects, this is a transit situation frozen next to you. For example, a stellium from a partner’s malefic planets falls into our sixth house and makes aspects. In reality, we will feel worse. And even get sick.

Aspects are divided into aspects of heterosexual planets (Mercury - neither this nor that, but - the sun is a husband, the moon is a woman, Venus is a woman, Mars is a husband, Jupiter is a husband, Saturn is a man) - if there are aspects, then a flow of energy occurs. If the aspect includes an electrical planet and a magnetic planet, it is an aspect of a couple. Interesting

If same-sex relationships are aspects of friendship - Mercury and Uranus on one side and any other planet on the other side

When it's strictly business relations– we take only same-sex planets. Sun-Sun, Sun-Mars, Saturn-Mars.

1. Aspects

The most significant and interesting are the sun - moon and Mars - Venus. But Daragan believes that this value is exaggerated. We check the sun of one partner and the moon of the other partner. Both ways.

Orbs - even falling into the signs of one verse - is already a plus. If the exact aspects are generally great. But this aspect always has a strong effect.

The strongest option is connection. There is no burning, the aspect is always strong. The union first and foremost always reflects the essence of marriage. This is the original topic.

Trin gives boredom. Gives standard solutions. Bingeing. Sometimes I like it. Passive people. Although this is a favorable aspect for cooperation. But this trine really helps. But people tend not to appreciate it.

Sextile – acts 2 times weaker than the trine. That's why he is appreciated. Sextiel promotes friendship and romance.

Quadtarutv is an applied problem that needs to be solved. In what signs - it depends. Cardinal signs are sharp conflicts, without consequences, and even assault. Mutable cross - the theme of the conflict flows from one sphere to another, all in a heap... Fixed cross - the most aggravated, fierce, or long-lasting, the conflict can go on in the background all his life; those who are not ready can simply be killed by such a duration.

Opposition is considered to be easier to perceive than squares. This is a situation that you just have to come to terms with. For example, Mercury in Pisces - Mercury in Virgo. – you can adapt and accept others as they are. There are couples built on opposition; they are interested in each other. Many authors

So, the aspects:

If one of these planets is strong and the other is weak, then the strong one acts as a donor for someone else’s weak one. It happens that one person donates to another. When a marriage falls apart, one’s life is destroyed, while the other sees how much good there is in life.

Squares if planets are on the border of signs - then the aspect connects the planets in typical elements. But the orb must be narrowed by 2 times. And that's not good. Because the elements don't mix. But if in quadrature, it is easier to work through, since there is a relationship between the elements.

Sun - Moon (s-l) - is responsible for spiritual sympathy and mutual understanding.

• perfect - connection s-l. If there is a harmonious aspect or connection, this can cancel out any disharmony. But it doesn't happen often.

  Quadrature s-l – the most unpleasant. Worst of all. But this aspect works sometimes. Not all the time.

  Any aspect of s-l is considered better than nothing.

Mars – Venus

• Connection is a classic aspect of love passion. Very common in spin-off novels.

  Sextile – mutual sympathy. But not strong. But quite understandable. The one whose Mars experiences provocation by action. Nice aspect.

  Trine is a strong harmonious aspect. But this is not convincing. The point of view about this aspect is noticeably exaggerated.

  A square is a strong passion. Especially in affairs on the side. But! Involves jealousy, quarrels, betrayal. What you liked can irritate you. It is interesting as long as there is distance, overcoming boundaries. When it acts constantly, it is jealousy. Especially in a fixed cross. And in the cardinal as violence or sexual disharmony.

  Opposition – no conflict. But it's not easy here. A man's Venus to a woman's Mars and vice versa - this often occurs.

Sun - Mercury - very weak friendly connection. Nothing is really defined in a relationship.

Sun-Venus – strongly felt in synastry, one of the aspects of a love affair, ideal when Venus women, and the sun is men, very strong – a conjunction. Harmonious aspects are good. Tense aspects do not destroy relationships; sometimes there will be dissonance. No negativity.

Moon-Venus is a very strong harmonizing aspect in synastry. It gives harmony in everyday activities, the moon gives emotions without tension, this is how we behave naturally, as you are. Without a social mask. It is perceived well. Found heavily in maps. Squareness does not spoil relationships. But this is not a destructive aspect. If the sun-Venus is a square, and the moon-Venus is a square, jealousy may appear if they are in fixed signs.

Moon - Mercury - weak aspect makes communication pleasant and natural. There's always something to talk about. And it's nice. In tense situations it can create misunderstandings. Inconsistencies, but no destruction. Only difficulty in business and friendly relations.

Venus - Mercury - not the main one. Nice addition.

Sun-Sun is good for business cooperation. An almost useless aspect for characterizing a man-woman couple. This is not the leading aspect. Squares of the suns are perceived worse than the opposition. The exception is Gemini-Sagittarius, this is a difficult opposition (according to the classics). However, the force of influence in opposite-sex couples is much weaker than in same-sex relationships. The connection is not very good. For relationships. The exception is all mutable signs.

Moon-Moon - very good for synastry, when the Moons coincide in their elements. This is a natural manifestation of people. It is very good when the Moons are in the same sign.

Mercury-Mercury is great for business cooperation.

Venus-Venus – kinship of tastes. Doesn't have any radical effect. But a fantastic combination of flavors. Squareness is perceived worse, a reason for disharmony in relationships. But in opposite-sex relationships, this will not result in conflict. A conflict of tastes is not a conflict of compounds.

Mars- aspects: very important to consider in all interactions. Speeds up all processes. It’s as if they added pepper and put it (an aquarium) on fire.

• Sun-Mars is a traditional type of conflict aspect. Especially the square and connection. In opposite-sex couples, roles are not important. We irritate the other person. Who has the sun and who has Mars.

  The square of Mars to another planet is its “best” manifestation of the harmfulness of Mars. You need to get out of such relationships according to Castaneda’s concept, the principle of a petty tyrant. You don't come out of the relationship victorious, but changed. Change is the benefit of such Martian relationships. If Mars is weakened, it is extremely evil (Cancer, Libra, Taurus) - therefore for men it is a masculine sport, hunting, etc. For a woman it is a symbol of the man she is looking for.

  The opposition of the Sun and Mars is not so strong, but it can destroy relationships. It's a quiet, constant irritation. The initiator will be the one with the sun. Mars clearly works in physical activity and sex.

  Moon - Mars - in conjunction and in a harmonious relationship gives sexual attraction. Both planets are responsible for the sensual side. Both planets are of opposite sexes. But they are not very good friends. This is an aspect of serious grievances and quarrels. Mars will always have a provocation in such a pair. If the aspect is tense, it is a very difficult aspect. Both planets are not on friendly terms. Conflicts can be completely absurd. Purely impulsive rejection of a partner. For tense relationships, Moon-Mars in a bad aspect is the most important.

  Mars Mercury is a classic aspect of controversy. Even in connection. But in connection, constructiveness is possible. In a trine and sextile - good business cooperation. Square, the opposition, gives rise to very quick quarrels. But the aspect itself cannot destroy the relationship. But it will add some pepper.

  Mars-Mars is a negative connection... Squares and oppositions are also poorly tolerated: formally, this is an aspect of quarrels, but in opposite-sex couples this is a discrepancy in sexuality. Mars sextile and trine are good for physical labor and for friendship “against someone.”

Jupiter in aspects – it greatly ennobles relationships.

• Sun-Jupiter. Very good in trine and sextile, in conjunction with the sun. Two can do more than one. Increases the self-esteem of these two people in a couple. Both are all respected people. Has nothing to do with love. The tense aspect is the aspect of moral-religious disputes, etc., while the tense aspect is the question of who is more important? Tug of war. If the boss is a subordinate. The initiator of actions is the sun, and the boss will be Jupiter. Non-conflicting even in tense aspects. It may not affect your personal life.

  Moon Jupiter is considered one of the best synastric aspects. Generosity is authority on the one hand, and perception on the other. Emotional nobility. Many people envy this couple. Jupiter loves to show off everything. Both enjoy it. Tense aspects do not destroy relationships, but they are not a crisis either.

  Mercury Jupiter is one aspect of learning from each other. Both planets are learning. Without this personality, you would never have learned what is. If harmonious, this is excellent business cooperation, large projects. With a disharmonious aspect, there are difficulties in matters of politics, ideological issues, disputes, social perception, but there are no serious conflicts.

  Venus Jupiter is considered favorable. But significantly overrated. Increases harmony in marriage. The ideal option is Venus for women, Jupiter for husbands. Male generosity. Increases profit for the couple and good luck. The couple becomes happier. Disharmonious aspects mean inflated expectations, but Venus will suffer. Who will believe that she is not loved enough.

  Jupiter Mars is a conflict aspect in conjunction. It often occurs in couples. Not related to gender issues. May manifest itself in conflicts on moral and ethical issues. Jupiter may believe that Mars is behaving immorally and dishonestly. Jupiter is here as a moralist. Quadrature is the worst aspect. The harmonious aspect is very good for business cooperation. Jupiter is the ideal manager, and Mars is the performer. In practice, it happens the other way around: the boss adopts the ideas of his subordinate.

Saturn is traditionally a malefactor and considers all aspects to be evil. But modernity believes that Saturn’s anger is greatly overestimated. Saturn suggests patience and the test of time.

• Sun-Saturn in conjunction - difficult in both directions. They limit each other. The Sun believes that he is considered unimportant. And Saturn, turned on by the sun, really behaves harshly. Tense aspects are difficult, but manageable.

  Moon - Saturn - no positivity in the conjunction. Tense aspects are bad aspects for marriage. They are not friends at all. The Moon does not tolerate the aspect of melancholy and boredom “into a tender soul with an axe.” You can adapt.

  Mercury Saturn – aspect of business cooperation. Contributes to a fundamental inability to come to an agreement. With harmonious aspects it does not give much benefit. That. those with Saturn will limit those with Mercury automatically. But there are no flashes.

  Venus Saturn is a very common aspect in synastry. Harmonious and connections usually accompany long-term connections. The aspect for marriage is natural. There is formal love, and there is an idea - to keep it for a long time. Tense aspects - sexual disharmony in the one with Venus. Whose Saturn is generally inclined to educate Venus.

  Saturn Mars – two malefics. In tense aspects, and above all in square, it can lead to hatred. Not very good in harmonious aspects either. But according to empirics, the square of Mars and Saturn is often found in marriages. (no divorce, but yes to murder!!! No divorce...) they should always be considered as rulers of houses.

Of two people, the one with the greatest degree of freedom leads in synastry.