Our life is made up of desires. As a child, we dream of receiving a bicycle as a gift for New Year, in youth - to have a sports car, today we want to succeed at work, tomorrow we dream of breaking away from this work and flying away to rest in warmer climes, and the day after tomorrow - so that the whole world is at our feet. Some of our wishes, of course, come true. Every day mysteriously turns our desires into reality, then deprives us of such pleasure.
Have you ever wondered why desires do not come true? And how to understand this pattern, when Luck is on our side, and when not? And, finally, what desires are fulfilled, and how to make sure that the world is really at our feet?
Probably, humanity does not know such a number, which is equal to the number of unfulfilled desires. And most often the reason that these desires do not become a reality is their unfulfillment and impracticability. You can dream of becoming President, you can dream of earning millions, you can dream of a snow-white yacht and a palace, but no dreams will come true if you do not make efforts to implement them.
Conclusion 1. Desires do not come true because we do not act, but wait for the weather from the sea.
As they say, Fortune loves the determined and the brave. Very often, the implementation of our desires in life is associated with the emergence of life's difficulties and problems. For example, you have a dream of becoming a fashion model, but you perfectly understand what sacrifices you need to make for the sake of beauty. Desire is desire, but you are subconsciously not ready for this, therefore such a dream is unlikely to ever come true.
Conclusion 2. The fulfillment of desires is hindered by uncertainty and fear of problems that may be encountered in the future.
Very often wishes to us. Many people dream of being millionaires or show business stars - and we take these desires for our own. But that's the problem: by making the dream of society our dream, we lose our "I". And, as you know, Fortune favors people with an inner core, with a bright personality.
Conclusion 3. Why do desires not come true? The reason is not in desires, but in us. In fact, these are not our dreams, but abstract dreams imposed on us by society - therefore they are not destined to come true.
It happens that we want to live differently, in other conditions, in a different environment, but such thoughts do not go beyond dreams. Have you tried to understand why desires are not fulfilled? The fact is that even if we want to radically change our lives, subconsciously everything suits us - due to habit or upbringing. Therefore, the dream of “dropping everything and leaving” is most likely impossible, because habits are more difficult to change than desires.
Conclusion 4. Desires are not fulfilled due to our habits: and if the dream turns out to be weaker than the habit, it is easier to change the dream.
Desires are different: both easily feasible and almost fantastic. And it is difficult to say with certainty that there are many / few chances for the fulfillment of one or another dream, because everything is decided by His Majesty Chance. But our dreams do not come true just because we ourselves are not sure of them. When there is no faith that your desire will come true, then there is no chance of its implementation.
Conclusion 5. Thought is material, and results will not come from disbelief. Believe in the feasibility of your desires - and then they will come true.
Life is movement, and our desires are the driving mechanism. There will be no life without desires, so you need to believe that they will come true, you need to make every effort to implement them - and then real success awaits you. After all, the decision on whether your wish will come true is made by the Queen of Fortune, and she loves only self-confident people who know what they want from life.
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Reason number 2 is banal and simple: desire hangs somewhere in the nooks and crannies of your thoughts, and does not find any support in actions, no reflection in the material world.
A lot of people answered the question “Why don’t you still have what you thought of” like this:
I’m lazy, I don’t do anything, I don’t know what to do to make it come true, I won’t write it down and just think about rituals, but I don’t do it, I do other things, and I don’t take on my desires, I put off, I owe a lot others, I can't
and everything like that.
Tell me if you don't love yourself, don't take care of yourself, don't take care of your dreams, who will do it for you?!
Tell me, if you want to eat but don't make a list of groceries, don't go to the store, don't prepare food (or at least don't sit at the table and pick up a spoon), won't you stay hungry?
Tell yourself: today, this week, this month, I did this and that to make my cherished wish come true!
So, if you have not done anything yet, then I advise you to start right now. Because the magician is the one who acts, not the one who lies under the sofa. What to do, in what order, and how to force yourself to get rid of laziness?
What to do? Number 1.
Formulate and write down. If you don't know exactly what you want, if you constantly change your mind and rush about, you won't get anywhere. More about this in the article. Write down your goals and desires with pen and paper.- this is the first step towards their materialization, the most important.
What to do? Number 2.
Take the first step. Imagine that desires have come true, realize yourself, your feelings, thoughts, how it will all be. Get used to these feelings believe that this is normal and you are worthy.
If you still can’t imagine yourself even close to how it will all be, then ...
What to do? Number 3.
Find out as much as possible about your desire. Do you want to move to some country? Do you want to become a businessman? Want to write a bestseller? Any other desire that seems very difficult to fulfill so far?
Then look for. Read something on your topic every day. Find out who has been successful in this area. Read tutorials and tutorials. Register on the forums and read what people who have already achieved success are discussing. Try to get to know them, communicate with them. Ask questions. Feel free to communicate, in the future you will help someone, inspire someone with your success.
What to do? Number 4.
Make a plan. Your plan may initially consist of just two items:
Step 1. I print out a photo of Cibeles Square in Madrid, paste my photo on it and put it in my wallet.
Step 2. I buy a Spanish grammar book.
Step 3. I find out what are the ways to fulfill my desire and complete steps 4-9.
Step 10. I live happily in Spain, work, get citizenship.
What to do? Number 5.
Take the first step in your plan!
Now consider laziness and being busy with other things.
My friend Natasha told me: “I envy you so much, you do so much, I don’t have the strength for anything other than work and housework, what other rituals are there ?!” And we began to consider her day. It turned out that 2-3 hours in the evening she watches series and various TV shows, at work she spends about an hour and a half a day on smoke breaks and talking with colleagues about how bad, expensive and unfair everything is, before going to bed she thinks about her past failures and sorrows, and on weekends on the Internet he reads women's forums, horoscopes and other husks, from which he remembers nothing after 2 days.
At the same time, Natasha dreams of learning French, going freelance (she is a translator), and in the future to establish her own company. To fulfill these simple desires, she does not need much - only to change her habits.
- 2-3 hours in the evening to watch series, movies, programs on French(put a satellite dish or download on the Internet, these investments will justify themselves, because this is the way to a dream!
- At work, some smoke breaks and chatter are replaced with five minutes of visualization, pronunciation of affirmations, writing down ideas, learning French words.
- On the Internet, read and learn as much as possible about freelancing, look for clients, complete small orders. Read about business in your field, learn other people's success stories. Draw a wish card.
- Before going to bed, scroll through your head only your successes and joys, mentally give gifts to relatives and friends, thank yourself, life and your world for everything that has already come true!
In just a couple of weeks, you can gradually change your life, finally get on the path to your dream, start taking action!
If you find different excuses, calm yourself, be lazy, then start eating more nuts and honey or anything else that, according to your beliefs, raises immunity and energizes the body.
I also suggest that you read my answer to the question of one sorceress:
How to solve your dream? 
Let's suppose that you suddenly disappear and stop doing what you are doing now? Life is such a thing that always empty place filled, of course, there will be some problems, but everything will be resolved one way or another. And you will do what you want.
Now suppose that you never quit your current activity. And you will spend the rest of your life like this. It suits you? After all, the years go by. It seems that later, then everything will change, but then it never comes. It comes only when you decide for yourself.
At the same time, if you already have another thing in your soul from which you will be happy, but there is no certainty yet that it will allow you to live in peace in terms of earnings, then you can do everything gradually. Make a plan.
For example, before the New Year, reduce the load at the current place, and leave from the new year. During this time, transfer all cases to a new person. Gradually transferring these cases, begin to plan and develop a new business, your future. All this can be done openly, warning anyone about leaving, or you can covertly for the time being - just make a decision inside.
Perhaps these months will be stressful. You will not watch TV, you will sleep less, and even eat, you will not spend your free time on anything other than a new business. But if you do not be lazy, and wisely and diligently follow your plan, you will be rewarded.
Sit down and write down an ACTION PLAN on paper. Stop tossing thoughts. START ACT. At least on paper for now. Then gradually, for an hour or two a day, do something necessary. And do not try to change everything in 1 day, give yourself six months for this.
If you are too lazy and will, but do nothing, then six months will pass in the same way as the past two, and another 10 will pass in the same way.
Today, many are trying to set a goal, desire, dream, strive for it, visualize it. After all, the commandments of modernity: "All our thoughts are material" and "Nothing is impossible." This means that if we regularly scroll in our head the moment of the fulfillment of our cherished desire, then sooner or later it will materialize. A dream fills life with meaning, sets a constructive vector for it, helps to build it in such a way as to eventually get what you want. But the key here is "in the end". It is when? In a month? Year? Decade? Half a century? Do you have the patience to wait? Is faith enough? After all, you want everything at once.
The theory of transurfing by Vadim Zeland gives a very interesting interpretation of the scheme of materialization of the desired. Mr. Zeland argues that our world is a kind of dual mirror. On one side of this mirror is the entire material world, which we see every morning after waking up, in which we spend our day while we are awake. In the "mirror" is stored a certain space with all possible options developments in the material world. It is there, in the "mirror" that our soul goes after the mind falls asleep. It is from there that fortunetellers and psychics draw information about the future, it is from there that they come creative ideas and all innovations.
It is in the space of options that the path is stored, upon which we come to our cherished dreams. How to get on this path? Very simple: wish, formulate your dream and set out to achieve it. At the same time, it is extremely important that the dream be yours, and not borrowed from friends (a neighbor bought a car, I also definitely need the same one). If you wish for something that is not really your spiritual impulse, then most likely you will not receive it or receive it with great difficulty. Understanding that the goal you have chosen is really yours is very simple. When you think about it, you clearly feel how your soul rejoices and your mind echoes it. There is no fear, no doubt, you are happy when you imagine yourself at the moment of fulfilling what you want.
It is important not to confuse the dream with the means of achieving it. For example, having a lot of money is not a dream. Money is just a tool to achieve what you want. A dream is a trip to an exotic country, writing a book, creating a masterpiece, leadership in your business segment, getting a prestigious position, etc.
So, you have found that most cherished desire of YOUR and firmly set out to make it a reality. And now it's all about patience. Yes-yes, for patience and only. What happens next is none of your business. Your job is to just keep wanting and not give up. The Universe will take care of how you will come to your dream. The fact is that at the moment when you set a goal for yourself, you seem to be standing in front of that same dual mirror. On one side, on the material side, you stand, and in the "mirror" is the very space of options. And here's what happens next. Imagine that you, making a wish, raise your hand up, and in the mirror your reflection remains motionless. The fact is that the dual mirror reacts to all our desires with a delay. There is also a completely logical explanation for this: if all the desires of all people on the planet were fulfilled immediately, you must admit that the world would plunge into chaos. That's what this delay is for. And if you have the patience to wait for the reaction of the mirror, then in the end you will see how your reflection in the mirror raises your hand.
In general, strong anxiety, however, as well as a passionate desire to have something, are feelings with excess potential that can generate balancing forces. The universe tends to maintain balance within itself, and as soon as it notices the accumulation of large masses of energy - whether it be strong fear and anxiety or an unbridled desire to have something, then it immediately sends a wind of balancing forces to this place in order to extinguish the source of the burst of energy. In your life, this means that when you worry, the Universe is in a hurry to realize your anxiety in order to end it as soon as possible. Those. for you, the worst wish has come true, this is already a fact, there is no more anxiety. That is why worrying is extremely unprofitable for you. Let go of the situation, let the desired happen, and not be realized fears.
It is extremely useful to scroll the frame of the realization of your dream. At the same time, it is effective not just to present a picture, but your feelings at the same time. The more often you do this, the faster you will get everything in reality.
And most importantly, remember that you should always dream about what you want, and not about what you don't want. Let's say I dream of traveling a lot - this is a constructive dream. I imagine myself walking around European cities, on the lawn near the Eiffel Tower. But if you constantly repeat to yourself that you are fed up with this city, static life in one place and the inability to go anywhere on vacation, then the dual mirror will persistently reflect all your unwillingnesses, you will never get a chance to go to another country. This happens because the dual mirror does not know the "NOT" particle. You wholeheartedly do not want some situation and thereby doom yourself to it. That is why it is always beneficial to want, but to want, as it were, by the way, without generating excess potentials around oneself, and to tune in in advance to a positive outcome. Dream and may all your dreams come true!
Desires come true if you master the technique of their fulfillment. Start with small desires, and you will see that the technique works. Over time, you will become a master and be able to embody daring dreams. Good luck to you, just follow the safety precautions.
It is very good when wishes come true, especially if it happens on time. It doesn’t matter if it’s a big desire or a very small one - we still rejoice even when we recover. close person, and when we have time to get on the bus before work. It would be nice if wishes did not have to wait too long, and that they were granted in a recognizable form, and not in the form of mockery, as in jokes about goldfish.
Many people believe that the fulfillment of desires is in charge of higher powers. Perhaps, but it is unlikely that they are in charge of all our whims. In many ways, we ourselves are responsible for the embodiment of the desired. Without knowing it, we place insurmountable obstacles in the way of our dreams. When it is realized, contrary to our expectations, we tend to see it as a miracle. What are we doing wrong and why do we interfere with the realization of our own dreams?
1. Learn to formulate thoughts
You must know exactly what you want and find the language for your desires. It is pointless to dream of misty expanses that have no shape, color, smell or name. The subconscious is constantly engaged in the realization of our aspirations. It is thanks to him that we choose the right path leading to the goal. We don't know exactly how the subconscious manages to please us. Perhaps it uses "connections" with the information field or includes our unrealized capabilities, but this is not important. It is important to understand that the subconscious differs from the consciousness in that it does not accept hints, irony, sarcasm and other nuances. Learn to give direct instructions without any ambiguity.
Confidently command: “I want to relax in Barcelona!”. The desire is understandable, and the subconscious will immediately begin to implement it. If you formulate the wish differently: “I need to earn money to go to Barcelona,” the subconscious mind will start to rush about. There are two tasks at the same time - to earn money and get to Barcelona. What kind of situation to build? This dichotomy can at best result in the fact that you will have the opportunity to earn money during your vacation, when you could go to the city of your dreams. But this is not the worst scenario. More often, the subconscious simply freezes, like a computer that received two commands at the same time.
2. Let your subconscious mind take over
Trust your subconscious mind, and don't make a precise plan with instructions for each action. Perhaps, fulfilling your wish, the subconscious arranges for you to win a trip to Spain. Or suddenly you will meet people from Barcelona online who dream of visiting your city, and you will be able to exchange apartments for a while. You cannot even imagine all the options that are capable of "making a fairy tale come true." Don't put too much pressure on your subconscious mind and it will do its best to please you.
3. Believe in the possibility of a miracle
Very often desires are not realized because we do not believe that it is possible. We persistently seek, find or invent explanations why what we want cannot become a reality. What drives us to such disgusting behavior? Somewhere deep in the soul of everyone lives a vile worm that gives rise to doubts and self-doubt. It is he who whispers disgustingly that nothing will come of what he has planned, and if it does, then everything will end very badly. Whose offspring is this nerve worm? This is a child of an inferiority complex, persistently convincing us that there is no one in the world worse and worthless, that such an inferior being does not deserve anything, especially the fulfillment of a dream. Complexes need to be fought - this is beyond doubt, but there are other extremes.
4. Keep in touch with reality
It is easier to fulfill a real dream than a transcendental fantasy. Any desire has a chance of fulfillment, but the more real it is, the greater the likelihood of realization. Obviously, the desire to relax in the evening watching TV with a cup of coffee is more realistic than the dream of becoming the Prime Minister of Australia. Do not confuse desires with fantasies, the purpose of which is rather to diversify our leisure.
5. Don't waste the energy of desire
Theoretically, the most absurd notion can come true, but even simple desires require energy to come true. We take strength from our desires, talking about them at every step. Remember once and for all - you cannot share your plans with everyone you meet, especially with those who cannot help you in any way.
6. Be Patient
Sometimes dreams do not come true for a long time when we passionately desire their implementation. Imagine that every time you return your thoughts to your desire, the scene of the chief executive is played out: “When will you come true?” “I don’t know, probably soon.” This is repeated several times a day and sometimes at night. Now imagine that you are your desire, which has an impatient boss. You have a responsible task, you are working on it, trying to do everything right. The boss is constantly tugging at you to ask how things are going and when the result will be. How will you work and what will be the result? That desire requires freedom for implementation.
How to speed up the process
People at all times wanted to bring the moment of fulfillment of desires closer - this is how we are arranged, even the most patient of us. Mankind has developed several effective methods. It happens that some method does not work. Don't be discouraged - try another way. If your desire is in principle feasible, it will come true.
Application message
One of the most reliable ways. Write or draw a wish on a piece of paper and stick it in a conspicuous place - above the bed, at the desktop, on the refrigerator. The location can be anywhere, as long as you see the letter often. Pretty soon you will get used to the sheet so much that you will stop reading the inscription on it. Perhaps one day you will lose faith in the method, and you will even want to throw away the sheet. Take your time! This message is addressed to the subconscious, and it perceives information even without the participation of consciousness. This is a signal to action, and one day the task will be completed.
At total absence artistic ability, you may refuse to capture the dream in the picture. Describe in words what you want, but avoid using the “not” particle. The phrase “I don’t want to take a vacation in the city” doesn’t fit. Write: "I'm in Paris" and imagine how you will spend your vacation, climbing the Eiffel Tower or walking around Versailles.
Make a collage
This is a variation of the previous method. Cut out and paste on a large sheet of paper pictures from magazines with the image of the desired object and everything that may be related to it. Mount the poster in a visible place and constantly improve it. They say that in this way the lucky ones get cars, apartments and trips to exotic seas. Your expectation will be pleasant and creative, and the time before the incarnation will fly by unnoticed.
Visualization
This is a favorite way of psychologists and adherents of NLP. Experts insist that with the help of visualization it is possible to bring the fulfillment of a dream as quickly as possible. The idea of the method is as follows: choose a time and a secluded place where no one will disturb you, relax. Think about your desire and imagine as clearly as possible what will happen when the desire becomes a reality. For example, you want to visit Barcelona. Imagine walking along the Ramblas, slowly exploring the Gothic quarter and losing touch with reality, looking at the buildings of the great Gaudí. You are carried away and amazed, you want to go into that street to the right and slowly make your way to the sea. Inexhaustible possibilities for a flight of fancy - paintings should be bright, with details and sensations of smells and even air temperature. After meditation, try to let go of the desire and not think about it until the next session.
In anticipation of the fulfillment of a desire, follow the rules of conduct:
- Help others make their dreams come true.
- Do not wish for that which may harm others. The more people will benefit from the fulfillment of your desire, the greater the likelihood of its speedy fulfillment.
- Don't miss the signs that appear when you remember your desire. You thought about what you want, and saw an ad with the inscription "Assess your potential." Maybe this is a leading question about the feasibility of your plan?
- Don't waste your life on unfulfilled dreams. There are areas that can only be entered in dreams. You can glue collages and visualize several times a day the dream of the crown of the Queen of Great Britain, but ... Use energy to enter not painted, but real doors.
Finally, I would like to remind you that there are small desires that we are able to fulfill without any methods. You just need to get up and do what you have been putting off for a long time due to laziness, indecision, or for another incomprehensible reason (see ""). No need to dream about new wallpapers - buy them and paste them in a couple of days. Conduct an audit of your cherished desires, and you will be convinced that you are able to fulfill some of them without involving the subconscious or higher powers.
The last months have been for me a time of discoveries, revelations and, I'm not afraid of this word, insights. It probably happens to everyone. When you suddenly understand a lot and move on to another, higher and best stage where everything is much easier and simpler. And you think in amazement about why you didn’t understand all this before, because life constantly gives us clues.
Treasured desires. Why are they not being implemented?
Clinging to what we do not need in life does not give us happiness. Life goes on in constant expectation. Each person has several cherished and many, many different small desires. The trouble is that cherished desires are often not really such, they are simply inspired by society, fashion or family. For example, a person stubbornly pursues a career, "dreaming" about advancing in career ladder in an area that he doesn't really like. Well, he does not get any joy or pleasure from work, but at the same time he is very afraid to admit it to himself and stubbornly climbs to the heights of this business.
At the same time, the soul sheds tears, but the mind pretends not to hear anything and continues to “dream” about a high position.
A person begins to look for various ones, finds and makes his "cherished" desire for a brilliant career, visualizing himself in the director's chair and giving instructions to his subordinates. But for some reason, the desire does not come true in any way, the person falls into the grip of idealization and into a constant, painful expectation. What is the joy of life when the cherished desire is not fulfilled in any way! And it is unlikely to be fulfilled, because only those desires are fulfilled in which the mind and soul go in unison and are completely united. And they can be united when a person goes through life, fulfilling his destiny. It is likely that in some other area a person could achieve much greater heights by doing what pleases his soul.
Therefore, it is useless to visualize yourself where your soul does not aspire.
I have long understood that it is necessary to give life and higher forces the opportunity to lead you in the right direction, and not run ahead of the engine, and in the completely opposite direction. Or swim against the current, completely exhausted and not allowing yourself to relax and just get high from how the river of life carries you in the right direction. Instead, we spoil our lives, suffer, suffer, and stubbornly go to what we absolutely do not need! Clinging to the past and constantly "drinking sawdust", we earn ourselves depression and illness. We constantly face our past, proving something there, explaining, looking through situations, and we stand backwards to our future and present. At the same time, we experience negative emotions, poisoning ourselves and radiating not very good vibrations into our field. So where does joy and happiness come from in our lives?
Or, for example, a woman about a wonderful man whom she will marry and live with him in joy and happiness. Now everyone is talking about the fact that in this case it is necessary to submit an “application” to the Universe, describing your perfect man on a piece of paper. After all, as they say, what is written with a pen .... And that's the trouble. But don't you think that the higher powers know better what kind of man you need? And can you describe and take into account all the nuances? And are you sure that even if such a man comes, you will live happily with him all your life? This method worked in the 3D world, but now the world is changing rapidly.
How easy it is to fulfill your desires
The same goes for things. There is no need to describe the car in detail, it is enough just to feel yourself in this car, the smell of expensive leather, the joy of riding in this car.
In general, in any case, do you want Good work, a man, a car, an apartment, and so on, do not limit yourself to the limits of your mind, let life give you the most the best option For you!
Do not imagine specifically Vasya, Petya, the house on Rublyovka or a white Cadillac, do not describe anything in detail, just feel the joy that you have it! What matters is your feelings, your emotions, what matters is what you radiate. In that case, the mind and soul are one and you will get what you need. And, quite likely, it will be a little (or a lot!) Not what you imagined and invented. Let miracles enter your life, learn to trust higher powers, your Guardian Angels and all those who help you through life. Let them give you the best, don't cling to anything in particular. Your brain doesn't always know exactly what you really need in life. Do not limit yourself, do not set yourself narrow limits. Believe me, it is much easier and more interesting to live this way!
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